"I fell asleep with thoughts that we do what to do. Relationships came to that phase, something to create a family or part. Moreover, there is no readiness in the first or in the second case. I dreamed at night that I was in the mountains, and I stand at the top of one, and I see another 2 vertices in front of myself on both sides, there is a frightening gorge between the mountains, the bottom is not visible. Between the peaks of the mountains rush cabins, like on cable cars. Moreover, with my mountains in the same side 2, other mountains are not connected by anything. Around indescribable, wild beauty. I stand on my grief, the booths are constantly leaving for two other mountains, but I stand still on the spot: then the booths are busy, then some curves, then rusty, then no long. I go to bed on top of my mountain, but I can't even leave the next day. Around the same beauty, silence. I wake up with the thought that I still stand in place. "
Magnificent sleep and an example of what work our subconscious is leading. As for sleep meaning - it is quite transparent: to make a certain choice means cut off other alternatives. In other words, in the case of our dream, to be with this girl - it means to be totally, to input and create a family, to build common plans, to invest in a joint life day. Or, on the contrary, honestly admit to myself and partner that such a prospect does not inspire and part, because no one will return the days of lived "in good" with his own woman. It may be so that while he reflects, "is it worth being together", next to him there is no place for really his partner in life.
However, such a situation is familiar to many: the waiting for a more suitable partner is not alone, but next to someone. Such an illusion that while "everything suits me and so." Many are immersed in any relationship so as not to deal with their own loneliness, despair about unrealized dreams of proximity and love. Initially go on a compromise with you, knowing that this partner is in fact they are not suitable. Nevertheless, attachment, heat, the feeling of guilt then do not allow these relationships to stop on time. Therefore, they stretch like chewing gum.
Very simple, reading this dream, come to the conclusion that our dreams are indecisive, fooling his head to a poor girl. However, usually in such cases this is a mutual agreement. Our close, even if they do not understand, then definitely feel how things really are. And the search for the "best" options, as a rule, occurs on both sides.
If the position of one of the partners is unambiguous, then there is no need to search for replacement options. So our dream is waiting for an honest conversation with your partner if he is ready, of course.
It is important to speak frankly about feelings, and about intentions, and that it does not suit each other in order to give a chance to their relationship.
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Maria Zemskova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazina