Today, instead of the usual entry, before each example, I will tell you the "bearded", but the appropriate anecdote.
Freud's daughter tells her father:
"Daddy, I saw a dream tonight, as if you had stretched me a banana." I have already extended my hands to grab it, but at that moment Uncle Gustav comes up and stretches my banana to me. Banana Uncle Gustav was so ripe and beautiful, and your was all the sluggish and already blackened. So I took the banana uncle Gustav and after that I immediately woke up.
Freud, sighing:
- Daughter, dreams are without meaning - just dreams ...
And now the dream of our dreams. You have repeatedly observed how we are looking for hidden subtexts in the dreams of our heroes. And today's example, we closed this opportunity, since the dream itself gave himself in a dream more than clear answers: "I move to the building similar to the place of my work. And there we are together with my husband go to the local clairvoyant. She says to us that you can solve topical questions for our couple. We need erotic in life. This word I remember vividly. Conclusion: Sex - solving problems. "
Well, what can I add here? Is it just that the dream saw the woman, so, probably, the responsibility for eroticism, the game, intrigue and seduction in relations with her husband should be assigned to himself. Instead of expecting the initiative by the partner, the need for the manifestation of which he probably does not recognize, in a dream, she also recommends that you take an active position in this matter.
By the way, the difficulties in sexual life, the attenuation of passion and even the complete lack of sex life in marital pairs is an extremely common problem. And the point is not in sex as such. To continue whether we need to have sex? Not so many times, in fact. Sex is much greater than just a lesson for pleasure or to conceive children. Sexual life is a subtle prism through which partners demonstrate their attitude towards each other, but most importantly, in the presence of another demonstrate their own truth about themselves: the ability to express themselves, to have fun, showing their experiences, remain, even when it does not like it Partner. At the stage of the stormy novel, the couple readily use sex to demonstrate the "best" in themselves and deliver to another pleasure. Such a game "In the public" after a while tiring, therefore sex, like a platform to meet the other, for the need to please the partner, loses its appeal. The next step in this regard is to afford to rely on yourself, your desires, moods, interests and experiments are more than the expected result - the partner's satisfaction. We are talking about sex, but in fact - it is possible to practice in all spheres of life. Then the sex will be another act of love for himself and to the true disclosure of himself towards another.
Now let's go back to Snoviditsa. She told her sleep for himself that in life and in relations she was not enough eroticism: the ethnic, curaza, the vitality, the free and unbelief expression of the most intimate and intimate. Well, we hope she hears himself!
I wonder what you dream? Examples of your dreams send by mail: [email protected]. By the way, dreams are much easier to express if in a letter to the editor you will write preceding life circumstances, but most importantly - feelings and thoughts at the time of awakening from this dream.
Maria Dyachkova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazin