These words began a letter of one of our readers. In fact, everything is not quite so. The dream, which was sent to me, is described in this way: "I am in the enemies, hiding. I shoot in the forehead who wants to declassify me. And wake up. "
Interesting, short and juicy dream.
Our subconscious is very accurately finding a metaphor that is happening in our soul conflict.
For example, our heroine is in a threatening environment.
If we were in the dialogue mode, it would be possible to find out what real groups in her life are you talking about, with whom is the "Stal of Enemies" associate in life?
Many collectives in which we are, at first glance, quite peace-loving. But in fact, we expect a trick: in the working team a lot of envious looks, competition is strong, sabotage of common tasks.
Sometimes we do not even notice that we have to spend the forces to withstand this load: to cope with the accusations of our address, criticism, humiliation, violation of personal space.
In a dream, the heroine shoots his forehead to someone who notices that she is "alien", the other, different from the majority.
Of course, her sleep demonstrates that aggression, which is difficult for her in life to express directly, at. In a dream she shoots, without thinking.
Perhaps a dream tells her that it is time to learn to speak at the address, directly, "shoot in the forehead", and not hide and walk around and about.
Aggression, of course, is not the best way to find out the relationship - but certainly the most effective.
Sometimes he is just necessary to defend himself, protect yourself or insisted on his. In our culture, aggression is customary to suppress, it is associated with rudeness, hitting, criticism. However, this is not all ways to express it. In the therapy, there is even the concept of "association" - that is, the expression of itself is clear, manifestically, definitely. This is also an aggressive act, at the same time - great art. This, on the one hand, the ability to express anger, and on the other, - to make it clear for the opponent to the way it or she could hear the essence of the message.
Apparently, a dream in a frank metaphor tells our dreams.
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Maria Zemskova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazina