This film about the all-consuming feeling and devotion played an important role not only in Sergei's career, but also in his personal life. They wrote that the first wife of Varchuk did not pay any attention to his courtship for a long time until he saw a young man on the screen. And only then she answered reciprocity, they got married, a daughter appeared on the world ... But Idylli ended in divorce. His only happiness, a real second half, the actor met when he was forty.
Olga Varchuk: "Our love has its own prehistory, which began long before my first meeting with Sergey. I was sent for two years on a business trip to Vietnam, where I met Natalia Durov and her spouse Eldar. We went closest and naturally, continued to communicate, returning to Moscow. The parents of Natasha are expensive people - the director Boris Durov (who removed the wonderful films "Vertical", "I cannot say goodbye," Pirates of the twentieth century "and many others) and his wife Zinaida. So the life has happened that after returning to the motherland, I got married, divorced, and my unsettled personal life did not give rest to the girlfriend and her family. And I did not feel lonely and did not feel the need to make a light romance or some serious relationship. Therefore, when Zinaida Kirillovna somehow noticed that, they say, here I would like to get acquainted with the Varchuk to you, such a beautiful couple would have been, I missed and did not even become especially thinking about it. But Boris Valentinovich remember the words of the spouse ... "
Sergey Varchuk: "Durov is a talented director, and I consider it my godfather in the movie, because it was he who invited me to the role in the film" I can not say "goodbye", thereby giving a voucher to a professional life. You can say it was my star ticket. But the main thing is that he "served" in my fate is a familiarity with Olya. Once he called me, I posted that we have not met for a long time, and called visit. But surprisingly - not at home, but to her daughter, on the anniversary of her wedding. And it sounded so that it became clear: the refusal would not accept. "
Olga: "And I invited Natasha for this festival."
Olga, before exploring Sergey, saw films with his participation?
Sergey: "Of course! And so I dreamed of meeting me! " (Laughs.)
Olga: "It's joking. In fact, I watched the picture "I can not say" goodbye ", but Sergey I remember more than for some reason in the TV series" Torivka ". Somehow came from work, sat down dining - and just the hero of the Varchuk on the screen, such a whole positive, wonderful. At that moment, the idea came to mind: "Such ideal husbands are only in movies, it is unreal in life." And somewhere in a month and our first meeting occurred. "
Sergey: "I remember how only an honest company gathered at the table, Olya immediately rushed into my eyes ..."
Olga: "More - I was a bright lady, an interesting, confident! Who will not be noticed? " (Laughs.)
Sergey: "The truth says ... And I would immediately put an eye on her, as they say, but ... it seemed to me that the girl was not alone, but with the cavalier. Later it turned out that the son of her girlfriend was sitting next to her, who looked older than his years. But even realizing that she was busy and did not shine anything to me, I really wanted to attract her attention, so all the evening Izauluril, joked, sang under the guitar. And then, still deciding, invited her to dance. But I repeat, although the sympathy on my part was obvious, I did not assume that we would start some novel ... "
The film "I cannot say goodbye" played a fateful role not only in the career, but also in the personal life of the actor. Frame from the painting.
Why?
Sergey: "I immediately got the impression that with this woman some light shores do not ride. It could only talk about serious relationships ... Therefore, when Olya suddenly stumbled home, I wanted to say politely "it was nice to meet" (which, by the way, corresponded to reality), and that's it. And it is possible, we both the next day would just forgot about this meeting. "
Olga: "And here Zinaida Kirillovna Durov says Varchukka:" Seryozha, you would spend Olenka ... I would take it, you would still take the wheel. " I began to take advantage, they say, I'll get it myself, especially since Sergey's face it was seen that this proposal was not deliberate. "
Sergey: "It's not true ... I just tried to figure out what to do in this situation. As I lived nearby, I thought to leave the car in the courtyard and walk on foot, so I drank slightly. And to carry a girl who still, as it turned out, lives in the city center, is the right meeting with traffic cops and deprivation of rights. But I still risked ... On the way, we talked, and we were so fascinated by chatting that, having come to the Olya House, we stood at the entrance almost until six in the morning. "
Olga: "It takes into account the fact that on eight I had very important negotiations at work. It was necessary and look perfectly, and the head is light. But at that moment I forgot about everything. It seemed more important than this person sitting nearby, and the fact that he tells me, there is nothing in the world ... and somehow it turned out that he had revealed everything that was in the soul. "
All festivals, secular events and visit Sergey Varchuk prefers to go to the company of his wife. Photo: Mikhail Kovalev.
What about such a hidden conversation?
Olga: "Oddly enough, but then we then told each other all our lives ... Especially since we had a lot in common. Even the divorces had the same reason. "
Sergey: "My first wife Elena loved the Americans, left in the USA. And the former husband Oli fell in love with a Frenchwoman and moved to Europe. But despite the fact that I found a kindred soul, saying goodbye to her, I took a time-out to realize what is fraught with for me this acquaintance. Are we ready to serious relationships? Do we need it? We are already accustomed to the way of living, which we do not seek the second half, because we are self-sufficient and each of us has already managed to be disappointed in love. After that, even having met a person who is close to you in spirit, feeling that you fall in love, unwittingly feel and fears: let him go to my heart, and this can turn pain then pain. "
It turns out that the first step to the resumption of acquaintance did Olya?
Sergey: "No. I myself ... exactly a week later I called her and called it on one event, in which it was supposed to participate. I thought if I agree and would come - it means that it should be ... I scored her number of her phone, prohibitoril: "Olga, this is Sergey Varchuk. I invite you to meet, you have half an hour for fees. " In response, the Mkhatovskaya pause was hung, after which she hoarsely squeezed that he would come. "
Olga: "As I decided on this adventure, I will not mind my mind. Although I answered, not even thinking. At that time, I just fell off with a cold, the temperature is high, the medicine swallowed - and suddenly after his call gathered and went to the meeting. This act is absolutely not in my character ... "
Sergey: "By the way, I repent, but the invitation was with intent. At the same secular event, my friends were to be attended, including Igor Livanov, and my daughter. I really wanted to acquaint int with them and see how they find a common language. "
"My spouse is faithful. Flirting from the other you can only be seen on theatrical layouts or on the screen "(a frame from the movie" Correction "). Photo: fotodom.ru.
Surprisingly, just the second meeting, and you have already built any plans, presented a girl with your loved ones ...
Sergey: "Yes. We all happened very quickly. Almost all your free time we spent together, but I left speaking home, where I was waiting for a lime dog. It is necessary to walk away, so at least three o'clock in the morning, but I was forgiven with Olya and fled to my four-legged friend. And a month after the acquaintance, we have already gathered. "
Olga: "And for me it became a surprise. Judge for yourself: at night the night - the doorbell. I'm not waiting for anyone, so I confess, it scared me slightly. I ask: "Who is there?" And I hear Varchuk's voice: "It's us!" Why does he talk about himself in a plural? I am somewhat puzzled me, before I did not notice this. I open - on the threshold Sergey with a huge bouquet of white roses, and next to him collie ... because it happened in February, when it was silent on the street, you can imagine how "clean" the dogs were "clean". "You accept us?" - asked Seryozha, and Lyme, without waiting for an answer, leaving behind me dirty traces, passed to the apartment, right on the blue carpet, brought from Vietnam, and the host ruled. "
Sergey: "She can see, felt your positive answer. And did not give the opportunity to refuse if such thoughts flashed in your head. I just sat at home and pondered how much you can dangle. I understood that I want to live with this woman, build a family, but would Olya take my dog? And on the other hand, I think: what I break my head, you need to go right now and ask! If so, everything is clear, well, but if not ... I do not know what I would do then ... But they quickly became friends. Soon I poured on tour, leaving them together. Returning, and a solemn meeting is waiting for me - Olga is beautiful, elegant, near Lyme with a luxurious bow on the neck. And the whole entrance hall smelled of spirits. It turned out that my favorite and myself, and collie perfumely sprayed. I already grabbed the head: "Ol, what! Why? They can not - Schuch them! "But, fortunately, it did not affect the health of Limes, but it looked quite satisfied."
Olga: "Still would! She is also a lady and understands a sense in good dear flavors! "
Favorite holiday destination Spouses - Israel. Here and the sea is beautiful, and many attractions, and often meet compatriots. Photo: Personal archive of Sergey Varchuk.
Yes, with dogs sometimes easier to establish contact than with people ... Sergey, and how did your daughter perceive your relationship with Olga?
Olga: "When we began to live together, Seven-year-old daughter, Alexandra, was seventeen years old. And she could not immediately accept me with open arms, because in the depths of the soul still hoped that her mother would return to his father and the family would be together. And then the realization comes that it will never happen already, because the dad has a new life ... I understood her feelings, and most importantly - I wanted to find a common language with her. "
Sergey: "Olyas had enough wisdom and patience to make friends not only with my daughter Sasha, but even with a former wife. She correctly judged: Whatever it was, but with Elena, a common child connects us, so it is necessary to maintain normal relations. And when the first spouse came from the USA to Moscow, Olya herself suggested that we meet the four of us. Since then, they communicate very well and are located to each other. And now Alexandra is already thirty years old. She is an adult woman, she has a favorite person, family, and now daughter understands much more than thirteen years ago. "
Very often, couples who live in civil marriage for many years, do not officially register relationships ...
Olga: "We also did not hurry ... But when Sergey represented me to someone like his spouse, I noticed:" No, I'm not a wife. "
Sergey: "For sure. And knowing her reaction, I began to say simply: "This is Olga, my favorite woman."
Olga: "Once, when we lived together for about two years, some family celebration happened, where Serezhe's parents were also attended, which, I have to say, loved me very much, and my mother. And suddenly, Sergey asks: "Will you be my wife?"
Sergey: "Yes, and she, withstanding the dramatic pause, said:" I'll think about it! " We live together so much time, and she suddenly answers this ... what to think about?! "
And the wedding celebrated?
Sergey: "Quite modest. We decided, in both of us in both of us this marriage is not the first, besides, in fact, our family has been two years old, let's go and simply split up. "
Olga: "When I came to submit an application to the registry office, Sergey's head recognized, and he says:" I have already married and divorced here, so we can put the signatures without any pumps and long solemn speeches, where you need to receive a marriage certificate and go yourself? " On that and shaped. True, we bought a new, beautiful, but not white, but dark blue. "
Sergey: "We even had no witnesses, only the witness is my cousin who has come specifically to our wedding from Peter."
Olga: "You're better tell me, Seryozha, how you forgot me flowers to give. Well, Witness Bucket presented! We arrived at the registry office, passed by the smashed brides, grooms and their guests to the head of the head, quickly signed. This lady says: "I declare you with my husband and wife. You can congratulate each other! " Apparently, I decided that there would be a newlywed kiss. Yeah, now ... Varchuk shook my hand instead of a kiss, and we went to a restaurant where our close friends were waiting for us. But there were kisses under the screams "Gorky!"
For Son Ivan, the actor became not only a caring father, but also the best friend. They are doing together and lessons, and play. Photo: Personal archive of Sergey Varchuk.
The new stage of your life began when a son appeared on the world ...
Olga: "We really wanted children, but at first, unfortunately, it did not work. Even the doctors ran, and they were bred by their hands: "You are both healthy. We do not know what is the case. " Can not imagine how I worried! While the friend of our family, a very good doctor, did not say: "Just throw it out of my head. Everything has its time. Do not think about it and worry about it. " And indeed, it cost us forget about this problem, and somewhere in a couple of months after that conversation it became clear that I was in a position. And it happened this just for the Annunciation, the seventh of April ... "
Who wanted more - Son or daughter?
Olga: "I don't know why, but I always, even before the first of my marriage, knew that my son would be born in the future and I would call him Vanya."
Sergey: "By learning about Olyas Pregnancy, I say to her:" If there is a daughter, how to call, decide, but if the Son is, it is certain, it is absolutely, at the Ivan, in honor of my father. " And she suddenly takes off: "And what are you doing my name, which I came up with my son, pick up?! I decided that I would be Vanya, even before meeting you! "(Laughs.) And I convinced me that a boy would definitely appear to the light."
And who is more engaged in education?
Olga: "Both. In general, I am a crazy mother who tried to defend the child for a long time so that he just strangled him with his care. Until a year ago, during the holidays at the sea, Ivan, for which I closely followed the mother's eye, did not say: "Let me take a rest here!" He said and forgot, and my words sat down in my head. I frightened over what was happening and decided to give him more freedom. Of course, we are still watching him and know what and when he does, but at the same time, he does not notice our supervision. We try to instill independence. At least visible ... And how Sergey Father, I no longer met such. It happens, it will come tired, Vanya rushes to him: "We are going to play soon!" And he will never refuse his son. Even if there is no strength, and the child asks to go to the park to drive football. I'm already saying: "Ivan, let's take a father first!" But Serezha himself immediately objects to me: they say, nothing terrible, everything is wonderful ... Our dad is all knowing - they are fooling together, in the summer they play in the ball in the summer. And wherever we come to relax, the children's company is going around Sergey and Vanya. "
Your Union has already thirteen years ... Do not get tired of each other?
Sergey: "No, that you, even on the contrary, we try not to part. Traveling always with the whole family, we also try to go to the festivals as possible together. And in secular events, and almost do not go to visitors. Uncomfortable somehow without a friend. We generally feel one whole. However, it should probably be if the family is real, based on love and mutual respect. "