More recently, you constantly heard the words of love and were confident that she still fills your relationship. However, unexpectedly in love with you, the man began to behave differently, and now you are no longer confident in his feelings. How to understand what he sobbed you, is it possible to fix the situation and what to do in this case? PSYCHOLOGIST, Singer Alina Diskis gives advice to those who have encountered such a problem.
Alina Delisse
Signs that man does not like:
1. First alarming bell Who should alert you, can become the resulting absentness and the desire to distance yourself from you. You suddenly began to notice that your man became more sharp in communication, often disappeared at you, does not rejoice when you come home, and does not share your plans and ideas with you. He seems to make you confidence - the conclusion suggests itself: it means that I found a trusting attitude elsewhere.
2. The second alarming bell Sound at the moment when a man starts increasingly forget about joint holidays, events that are important to you for you for a couple. He suddenly distances from your relatives, thinks how quickly go home. He seems to limit the time that spends with you.
3. Third bell It is heard at that moment when the husband stops suddenly to give you flowers, explaining this lack of money or time. In fact, flowers are not always a luxurious bouquet, sometimes enough to give one rose. As soon as the understanding of your relationship goes that a woman needs to pall, it is worth starting to take measures to save the situation.
four.Fourth bell It sounds more convincing: a man ceases to tell you about his love and ceases to emit these feelings and emotions. He no longer tries to acquire you at any convenient case, does not hold hands, he is no longer so gentle, understanding.
five.Fifth bell It sounds already like Nabat: a man has become cold with you, stopped making love. Scandals begin, screams, a woman begins to suspect treason, which may not yet, but there are some problems at work, in business.
How to fix the situation?
1. In relations there should be no suspicion, lies - Such a family is better not to build, because your children will watch all this. If you felt that the man began to cool to you, it is worth understanding what happens almost with all pairs, to take this situation and try, it is not too late to correct. Sit down the negotiating table and try to call a husband for a frank conversation.
2. You can try to pretend that you do not notice Change, but urgently go by their development and leisure . Sign up at the gym, go to a psychologist. Perhaps you just need a little "relax" from each other.
3. Return to the relationship what disappeared for many years - Romance raid . In invite your husband to the concert of his beloved artist, in a movie or in a cafe. Show a little fantasy, and this is guaranteed to pay off a hundredfold.
What should not do categorically!
You can not arrange scandals and overly glow the situation with your discontent. If you change internally, you will change to you. Take this phrase for weapons.