Our main audience is women, so from time to time they send a dream on the themes of childbearing. Of course, I would like to get such a dream and a dream man, but so far only women are active in this heading on the pages of this category.
By the way, this is an example of dreams of our regular readers. She shared the prehistory of dreams, as well as reflections on why they were dreamed of now, so there are almost no comments on my part. It seems that the task of our column took place at least because there is its readers who are interested in and penetrated into their dreams, learned to decipher the messages of dreams.
"Six months I meet with a man-peer (I am 47). He is divorced, has a son of 5 years, he loves him very much. We have a relationship from the category 'serious. " We speak about a lot. Several times it was a conversation and about pregnancy, and children: we would like - each separately - more children. He asked, I would like children from him if I could physically have more children. For 1.5-2 months I dreamed of this.
Sleep number 1. : I see my friend, she is older than about 5-7 years old, that is, she is 53-55 years now. She is pregnant in my dream and very pleased. The tummy is quite big. I'm all go around her, I'm gladfully stomach, I am glad and I ask all the time: "How old are you now? Tell me how old you are? " And she does not say everything, smiling mysteriously. And I think in a dream: "If she decided to become pregnant, and that's how everything is great, then I, being younger, because I can!"
Sleep number 2. : My friend is familiar. My peer. It has a bouquet of medical diagnoses, quite serious, each of which is contraindicated not that for pregnancy, but simply to carefree life. I see her pregnant, smiling. I also think in a dream: "We must, how cool!" I go, I tell her that, they say, I am very glad that you decided, well done! "
Pregnancy in a dream is not always related to childbirth
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Perhaps there is nothing to add. Snoviditsa met a man, relationships with whom they require continuation and development. The most "simple" for this way is the desire to give birth to a child. In a sense, this means that between them is something more than they want to share what they want to witness. It may not always be a child: sometimes a project, some business, can be traveling, joint study or a joint sphere of life in which the couple will see themselves as non-random people with each other nearby.
The child is the easiest solution from the point of view of biology. Although for our dreams and her not the very fertile age is a big challenge. Can she become a mother? Is it fertile yet? Can she give someone life?
With this crisis there is any mature woman, and the way out of it is not always a later child. It is much more common to cultivate your creative, creative start. You can give a new life very different ways. And in a dream, she sees women capable of creating a new one, even when their direct childbearing function is impossible. And he says to himself: "They can, and I can!", I confirming that there is no so much fertility as the creative female nature in itself.
I wonder what you dream? How and about what a woman speaks inside you? Examples of your dreams send by mail: [email protected]. The way, the dreams are much easier to express if in a letter to the editor you will write preceding life circumstances, but most importantly - feelings and thoughts at the time of awakening from this dream.
Maria Dyachkova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazin