When the first child appears in the family, young parents receive many tips from more experienced friends, colleagues and acquaintances. However, few people can tell how the life of a young mother will change after the birth of the second baby. We decided to tell about the unlikely facts that Moms shared with us were shared in the families of whom two kids would grow up.
You will experience a greater sense of guilt
With the advent of the second child, you have to find a balance between, now, by two children, each of which requires attention. You start reproaching yourself in the fact that the lion's share of attention is now leaving on the second child, which really requires round-the-clock care, sometimes young mom is so overwhelmed that the forces are often not enough forces. However, there may be an opposite problem when you blame yourself in what could give more time to second, more helpless child.
You may not have enough experience
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You may not have enough experience
Yes, you have already passed through breastfeeding and shift diapers with the first child, but it does not mean at all that you repeat all the same steps with the second child. Each child is developing individually. Some parents have a feeling that they first became mothers - life is so different with the first and second kid.
Emotions are a little faded
You have become more per person, but this fact does not cause trepidation and understanding that now in your life something will change. Euphoria passed with the appearance of the firstborn, now you will experience vivid, but not the same emotions as the first time.
May occur with breastfeeding
It is believed that the feeding of the second and subsequent children will not cause discomfort. Nevertheless, moms are surprised to find that the same problems with which they came across during the feeding of the first child arose during the feeding period of the second. Be ready for it.
You will not be able to spend the same amount of two children.
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Modesty no place
When you raise two children whose routine of the day do not match at all, you will not be confused by the fact that the second needed to feed in a public place while you are waiting for your younger schoolboy in the school corridor. The embarrassment, which covered you during life with only one child, will no longer visit you that for some moms it becomes a big plus.