The main thing is that the child is dressed, wage and fed. It is like a "multiplication table" driven into our heads generations of moms and grandmothers. And if naked children do not go in our country, then their nutrition is bothering only relatives, but even neighbors.
"What a bitter boy, you can see the badly, the vitamins do not have enough", "the yard gossip suggests.
"Yes, he eats well, just a dad we have high, and I weigh a little longer than fifty ...", "I started to justify. But grandma watched Square, with suspicion, they say, the cats fattened, and the child is famous.
Perhaps such a focal point in the older generation is associated with a constant shortage of products in our country throughout the twentieth century. Let's not go into historical excursions, but I had to starve many. Therefore, the exemplary child of the 70s - the 80s should be a bustheus, with stakes "dressings" on chubby handles and legs.
"Does not want - make me". My close girlfriend is fighting all his life with overweight, while her parents are very slender. It turned out that the native grandmother, a nurse in kindergarten, specially collane granddaughter's harmony, so that she would better eat and was muffled. And indeed, in children's photos Oksana's cheeks are visible because of their ears on the joy of mom and grandmother. Well, about violations of health that remained for life, then no one thought.
This is certainly a very extreme way, you can say physical impact. And how many psychological? Persuasions, threats, blackmail ...
"Do not eat yet, you won't get out of the table"
"Choose: You will not go to the soup or walk"
"The employee is checked by how quickly he eats"
"Well, you smear porridge in a plate, you will be the same smell"
"Mom tried, prepared, and you do not eat, which is not tasty?"
Several phrases and a small little man are asked a whole program of complexes for life. His, as a Christmas goose, adults are proper, satisfying and useful food. Schoolboy, coming home does not have time to remove the coat, and his already name is dinner. Thus, mom or grandmother express her care and love, and terribly offended when the child does not accept it.
As a result, a small person gets food not because he has a feeling of hunger and the need for it, but because they decided to adults so much. They counted the volume and calories, which, in their opinion, are currently needed by a child.
Psychologists and nutritionists believe that for a child, as for the whole family, it is useful to take food at a certain time. And it is desirable to all together. The joint feast combines the family. But if the child does not want to eat at this time, it is not necessary to force it. If the baby was hung between meals, it can eat a fruit and then eat a full dinner. This approach will form the right food habits in humans, which will become the key to his health in the future.