While one make an offer on New Year's Eve, others collect their things and forgive forever. Change of the calendar month, which is celebrated millions of inhabitants of the CIS countries, is a weighty impetus to action for doubting their decision. It is not scientifically known why the pairs are bred closer to the new year, but psychologists and lawyers have long decided what is the reason.
Why the number of divorces increases in the new year
British lawyer Lenor Rice notes that the majority of couples come to him for a consultation on the marriage process after Christmas - for Catholics this holiday is equal to the new year. The specialist says that the reason for the sharp growth of the number of divorces is not in the very festival, but in concomitant circumstances. Significant patients of the family budget, long holidays side by side with each other, visits relatives and finding a child next to you 24/7 - all this aggravates the existing conflicts with doubled power.
Decided to leave a man Children will not stop
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Love does not fade on the eve of the holiday
Not in vain everything is around only and say about the New Year's Eve - this is a special location of the Spirit when you want to take joy and share it with others. Not in vain at the festive table gather the closest people who wish to share this day with those whom they sincerely love. Another question is if there was a faithful feeling for a long time: a look at the lucky family will only annoy and promote a rapid solving an alarming issue. At such a time, there will be no children who want to make a divorce of a person, nor the request of the second half to think again, nor the coming proceedings in court.
Revision of own values
Habit to keep diaries and record plans for a year firmly entered our pre-New Year Routine. At the moment when you summarize the last period, in your subconscious, it is accompanied by a sharp emotional splash. Some understand that they are completely satisfied with life, while the second find out that their main achievement for the year is the purchase of a new frying pan. The contrast of the desired image and reality makes people think about smashing the usual way of life.
Do not cry - everything will pass
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All secret becomes clear
Well, do not forget about unpleasant surprises. Before the holidays, the second half can tell you that she has had a new partner with which she is happy. After having a peacock tail, a man literally leaves you from a broken trough. In such a situation, the first thing to write to a psychologist and discuss with him all the problems so as not to spend the holidays sobbing in the pillow or on the shoulder of a close friend.