Probably, every second parent is faced with the situation when his baby beats the reservoir of the new friend in the playground or even trying to attack the parents themselves. The reasons may be a lot: from omissions in raising to mental disorders with which you can deal only with the participation of a specialist. We decided to figure out how to behave parents if the baby dwells in a bad mood and is configured towards others unfriendly.
First, it is necessary to understand that anger is a natural feeling, the same as joy, sadness, fright and inspiration, and therefore it is important not so much to fight with negative emotion, how much to learn to contact her.
Love your child regardless of his mood
Of course, it is not necessary to encourage destructative behavior, however, education in this case is not in assessing the identity of the child, but in his behavior: gently, but insistently let the baby understand that aggressive actions on his part is bad, the child cannot independently navigate in his Emotions, and therefore you have to send it energy into a positive channel, not giving aggression to break out.
Teach the baby to recognize emotions
As soon as the child will understand where unpleasant emotions come from, and what to do with them, he will be much easier to cope with the negative. Over time, he will learn how to manage and aggression. How to teach this? When the baby begins to capricious, try together with the child to find out the reason: "You're angry, because ..." or "Let's think about why you are upset ..."
Support
Do not be afraid to talk about feelings and be open to the child. In no case do not scold your son or daughter for the manifestation of feelings, better tell me: "I understand you are offended ...", "Most likely, it seems to you that ..." Next, develop the topic, having a baby that you entered his position, and He can fully trust you if he needed help.
Become an example for a child
It is no secret that children in all take an example with adults, so if you are a hot-tempered person, you should not be surprised that your child requires obedience from others. Watch your behavior, try to control the outbreaks of aggression and, of course, do not figure out the relationship in your eyes. Become a better version of yourself so that your baby does not take an aggressive behavior manner.