"Jear a spoon for mom": We ourselves make sick of our children

Anonim

1. "Dare, at the bottom of all the power!" - Well, who at least once heard this from the grandmother of Dad?

And who from the parents did not come across the fact that this last spoon was climbing in the child, and you shoved it? And the result on the floor ...

It is impossible to force a child to eat more than he wants and can. Thus, he will no longer feel a feeling of hunger. But if he did not reach and asks yet, it is quite possible to give an additive.

The child must be fed and healthy

The child must be fed and healthy

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2. "I do not want, I will not!"

Please ask me anything that buckwheat is tasty - I will not believe! Let me choose your child that food that he wants, and not what I prescribed the doctor Benjamin Spock. Otherwise, after a steam kitlet in adolescence, he will go to chips and gas. For example, my fourteen son, when the refrigerator is scored, dies money to "Dashirak".

3. Food - not encouraging

Eat the soup - get a cake. Get the top five in physics - let's go to Fast Food. Wrapped with her husband - led by shrimps. And then psychologists learn people for a long time to love their victories and defeats.

4. This is not a gift, no pampering, but just fuel

It is impossible to manipulate a person with food. In no way. This is a daily process that can be turned into a cult and cautious. Only an adult can teach a child to relate to products.

P. S. Son has a friend, a peer. But the boy is twice as much. Let's call it lash. On the weekend I took the guys in the cafe there is ice cream. While my kirque docking the first ball, Lech skied everything. "Can i?" With screams: "Thank you, can I kiss you!?" - Lesha picked me together with a plastic chair. I burst out.

Lesha has money - his dad pays alimony. Lesha just not allowed ice cream.

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