Of course, if you raise several children, it is not necessary to count on life without conflict, and this is normal. However, children's scandals should not be protracted, otherwise both kids will suffer from the situation in which they do not want to return. We will give some tips that are designed to help avoid serious quarrels in the family.
Detach your time from your children
One of the most important parent mistresses is to unite children forcibly, going all together on shopping, for a walk, completely ignoring the individual wishes of children. Highlight the hour per day for each child: ask how the day went, find out how he wanted to work out. Thus, each of the children will feel personal support from parents.
Do not compare children
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Each child should have its own working / game area in the house.
Personal space is incredibly necessary, especially when the child turns into a teenager who has secrets from parents, as well as brother / sisters. Even in a small room you can equip the workspace for each of the children, sharing the room into small sectors. Each children should have their own bed, a table (or part of it), a shelf and dishes.
Never compare children
The second most popular parent error is a constant comparison of children. It is not necessary to think that your criticism of one and simultaneous admiration for the second will encounter a less successful child to change, rather, on the contrary, the child is working. There should be no rivalry between children, you must teach them to be one team, it is especially important to be able to unite if children learn in one educational institution: it's easier to resist aggressive classmates together.
Teach children to be one team
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Consider the interests of each child.
Remember that every your child is a person who can be the opposite of the second child. If toys in children can be common, each child should know that some, the most favorite toys, he may not share. With this approach, the child will turn into a confident adult, who in the future will be able to defend its rights and desires.