On my mom cooking, and on the dad, the ability to score nails - familiar? That is how they divided the responsibilities for education as early as 20-30 years ago. Fortunately, for a modern parent, his role in the formation of the personality of the kid is not limited to gender stereotypes. Now Moms are taught to ride children on a bike, and Pope read them for the night - parents can replace each other in any business. However, in this material on the example of an ordinary family, we consider how the father's education is useful to the younger son and what lessons it is he who can teach the child.
Generous signs
Greed is a real vice. Some young people believe that paying dinner in the restaurant, buy a bouquet of flowers without a reason or a ticket to warm countries - too much for people whose relationships only originate. The desire to show signs of attention has become synonymous with irrational behavior - is there a little girl later not justify hopes? Dad must explain to the son that his feelings should not be measured by money. This is normal when a person may not please you with close communication, although at the first meeting he seemed to be your ideal partner. Since childhood, offer your son to bring small gifts to your favorite girl in kindergarten and elementary school. Give together with him the bouquets mom, sisters, grandmothers and aunt, prepare surprises with close relatives - then in the mind of the child, such a model of behavior will consolidate as the only right.
Grow a real gentleman
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Ability to understand without hints
Every time you are photographs, words or something else hint at your beloved person on what you wish, and he allegedly understands anything, he deceives you. Men are no more stupid of women and perfectly understand your hints - just you are not the person whose dream they wish to fulfill. When people love each other, they strive to bring joy to an expensive person with any action and gesture. Pay attention to which decoration she looked in the store, bring her favorite candy in the evening, to bring to the movie for a romantic film - these are obvious things for lovers of men. The same applies to life: washing dishes, a walk with a dog and a time spent for games with a child - everything is not in a burden when you want to help the partner and see the shine in his eyes. Explain the Son that everything needs to be done in the call of the heart. And if it does not want anything, it means that there is not the person next to him.
Regular care
Dad, who takes a shower every day, shakes, puts a drop of perfume and cares for his hair and nails - an excellent model for a little boy. The parent must explain how the natural processes of the body work - sweating, laying the shelter on the teeth, the allocation of sebum on the face and so on. And then tell the child how to properly care for me: how often you need to go to the shower, change underwear, shave, walk on the haircut and make a manicure. After that, it is important to show what kind of cosmetics is to use the son and how.
Take care of the future of the child
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Demanding and striving for activities
To lay the will to victory in early childhood is one of the most valuable skills that parents can give. Dad must communicate with her son at least Mom and be his support, and not criticized. Explain that during the life he misses many cones from the wrong decisions, but each of them will give him a valuable lesson who is worth remembering. The boy must strive for active activities - it would be nice to attract it to family business or to drive the office for a day. Then he will see what to strive for, and dad will tell you how to achieve it.
Do you agree with the author? How do you raise your sons and what role do Pope play in their upbringing?