Increasingly, for interpretation of dreams, it is necessary to describe not only the picture seen, but also the context in which the dreams live. This once again emphasizes the idea that dreams help us see our deep response to what is happening and recognizing their experiences and reactions to what is happening, and often to make the necessary actions.
But in today's dream to the actions are far behind, and you will see why.
Sleep dreamed of an elderly woman who had already noticed a symptom for several years: at night, and in recent years already in the afternoon, in static poses, she had no hands, ranging from the shoulder and before the fingertips. The return of the sensitivity comes painfully, as if you seriously "served" the foot: it is painful, long and delivers different kinds of discomfort, but even more healthy person scares the temporary loss of communication with the whole part of the body.
This woman, whose symptoms are repeated increasingly, dreamed of sleep:
"I have a bright, passionate romance with an army general who has a lot of connections, privileges. It is powerful. During some special operation, he loses both hands on the elbow. We are in the hospital with him, they are preparing to surgery to give the surviving parts. Hands in order. We are discussing how we will live further - after wounds lie to him: we will go to Europe, we are sitting in. We are talking about the fact that sorry for hands, of course, but we are together, this life does not change. And then his life Call for the operation, I am waiting in the ward, I plan for the future. The surgeon comes, who made the surgery, and says that my man suddenly died on the table. "
Considering the previous context, the message is obvious. General with connections, Almighty - it is she herself and her attitude to his own body: a strong, powerful, hardy. Such a body and such her herself love.
The episode of sleep before the operation, when she and general who lost both hands build plans for the future - this is a reflection of their own trading a leaf that life continues that she is still new!
The sudden end of the general on the operation is its own truth in the presentation of his body. Easy to love and take the body, which is strong, powerful, healthy. Such a body and such an image like everyone.
But how to prepare for the fact that the body agitates, loses some abilities, changes and carry the memory and all the past experience. How to take such a body that sees worse with age and hears, most likely it looks worse, wrinkles, dry, is sick? Is it ready to observe and accommodate in his life that her body besides her will faster getting tired, slowly moves? Does she sees sad hair and wrinkles where the elastic skin was shining before?
This is a big challenge for a person - to recognize that life is finite. Maximum truthful in this opening your own body. Sleeping our dreams about how suddenly and without warning can collapse her image of itself as a strong, powerful woman with distant prospects.
And at the same time, sleep is not a gloomy forecast, obliged to come true. It is rather a reflection of the essence of her experiences and thinking about yourself. Perhaps now the dream is frightened by the losses coming with age. At the same time, her life is ahead of her life in front: instead of sometimes unmanaged young energy, maturity, wisdom, experience, awareness of the value of what is happening and gratitude for the path passed. This is a wonderful start for future life milestones.
And what dreams of you? Examples of your dreams send by mail: [email protected]. The way, the dreams are much easier to express if in a letter to the editor you will write preceding life circumstances, but most importantly - feelings and thoughts at the time of awakening from this dream.
Maria Dyachkova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazin