In families where several children grow, at least one will become the leader. Parents of one child are more complicated: they need to show them an example to be active and initiative commendable. Psychologists have no unambiguous opinion on the expense of whether it is worth it to specially educate leadership qualities in the child. Some believe that certain measures contribute to the manifestation of the leader's features, others adhere to positions, as if leadership are laid in the womb. We adhere to the first position and believe that it is in the conditions of society that leadership are developing and manifested. I decided to deal with the topic and find ways to upbringing the leader who are guaranteed to work with any children.
Stop the child
Another sitting in the sandbox, among the children there are leaders - these are those who are not divided by their toys if they play them themselves, and does not give him offense when other kids start throwing stones and sand. Parents of nursery children we advise you to protect the child from the attacks of others: the kids still do not know how to control their emotions and can offend anyone. If you have 5-7 years old to your child, it's not worth entering the argument between children. He is able to negotiate with the offender and solve the conflict without your help. Having learned to get out of the dispute by discussing the problem, and not the use of fists, at the older age he will be easier to find a common language with others. After all, the real leader is the one who can unite the crowd and show her an example of a civilized decision of the issue, and not call for aggression.
In collaboration with other children, the nature of your Chad is manifested.
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Teach yourself to make independent decisions.
Literally from one year old age, you can practice this skill, offering a child to choose a toy in the store, then clothes for kindergarten or access to the event. From school age you can give pocket money and send the child to the store for products. The decision of the domestic issues will prepare him for independent life and teach it rationally, which will certainly come in handy when studying at the university and at work.
Stimulate them to start your business
When you record a child to a sports section, lessons to study a foreign language, go together for a rink and ride a bike, all it becomes a baking for a successful future kid. Already in adolescence, a child can start making money on the basis of his skills to make money: become a tutor on general education subjects, draw pictures to order, write stories in literary magazines, make makeup and hairstyles, repairing equipment - a lot of classes. Russian legislation allows children to issue an IP on parents or to hold the procedure of Emancipation to become an individual entrepreneur.
Do not regret money on the development of the child in the regions that he is interesting
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Teach how to delegate business
The main task of the leader is to configure the work of the team. Compose to the child that in the modern world, if he wants to be successful and go with seven-mile steps, one will fail to cope with all the problems. He will have to use the help of others both in domestic issues and in workers. And it's good if he since childhood learns to ask for people's help, or hire them: ordering ready-made food, highlighting an extra time for learning languages, take a taxi, so as not to be late for a meeting with friends and so on. Yes, you will have to highlight additional resources for it. But getting used to a worthy level of life, he will have a stimulus to maintain his material well-being in the future, and not be content with small.
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