Not everyone from us just approach and get acquainted with the person you like, especially if you are in principle an unavimary person. In the modern world, social networks and dating sites come to the rescue. However, most potential partners in reality are not as attractive as they seemed to be a couple of hours in the correspondence. Naturally, we are instantly disappointed and the continuation of the acquaintance cannot go and speeches. We decided to figure out why online novels so little chance.
You are silent about many
Before appointing a meeting, make sure that your goals with a potential partner coincide: perhaps he is looking for a meeting for several nights, and you are already tune in for a possible novel. In addition, it is not bad to clarify the harmful preferences of the partner and your own - not every man will like a smoking woman, and you will face chat with lovers to drink. Discuss all the subtle moments in advance.
You have no critical look
Another feature of our psyche - we always try to justify the person you like. Studying the profile of men, such items, as "I live with parents" or "entrepreneur" a woman often considers in a positive key, convincing themselves in the fact that he is just saving on the apartment, and the "entrepreneur / manager" point says that he has big business. As if we did not want to represent a person better than it is, always turn on critical thinking, otherwise disappointment can not be avoided.
He does not tell you about himself.
A person who is looking for relationships just longer than a couple of meetings will be interested in your life, and will not be silent about his life and plans for her. If you have met already several times, but you still know only his name and the number of the car on which he takes you and takes, there is a reason to think about why a man is in no hurry to open in front of you.
You cheat each other
As we said, on the Web we try to look better than we are, however if your relationship really get the opportunity of development, your deception will open: it turns out that you hate meetings in the sports car, although they convinced a man in the opposite, and he is not going to put up with The presence of your relatives, if you suddenly decide to live together. Be frank each other, because normal relations are built on honesty and sincerity, deception - the path to nowhere.