The reasons why the child does not have time in school can be a lot. It is important to understand them and take measures to make your favorite child to learn better.
one. Insufficient level of basic knowledge. The child always lagged behind some subjects, and the older he becomes, the more problems with his study arises. It is easy to solve this question: if you understand that some discipline is not given to your offspring, you can either release the situation, agreeing that your child is not a "physicist" or, on the contrary, not "lyrics" or hire a tutor, which It will help to catch the tails and in the future to get normal points over the OGE or EGE, if this item is vital for admission to the university chosen by your child.
2. The child trite does not want to learn. The older the child becomes, the better understands that many items will not be useful to him in this life. And he is reasonably asked questions, they say, why is it all? How he can come in handy in life those knowledge he gets at school, because he is so smart! In this case, you can really focus on your selected profile and, to put it mildly, to "score" to the fact that he is not interested.
3. Baby is bored. Of course, viewing television series and sitting in gadgets is much more informative and exciting than visiting school sessions. Try to choose words that motivate your sibling to get knowledge. Of course, it is very interesting to spend time on the Internet, but, unfortunately, adults should work to pay for the Internet and other their hobbies. And on this issue, education is played an important role. If the child does not have time, he spends too much time in a laptop, it's too late to sleep, you may need to limit the use of gadgets, put a special program that tracks which sites it visits and, of course, set the mode. In the end, the parents here you, it means that you also install the rules of accommodation too.
Olga Romaniv
Press service materials
First love can also be a reason for sudden failure. No one is insured against failures in love, especially in childhood. But it is necessary to refer to the first passion of your child with respect and understanding. And if the child has opened up, be sure to support his word and work.
A sharp decline in academic performance can be associated with Pubertat. Teenage age - time of change, and they are not always with the "plus" sign. Children experience a bunch of complexes about their appearance at this age: someone had pimples, someone recovered, someone has grown chest for the summer, and someone remained with zero size. Do not let these teenage complexes on a samonek: Not only do children communicate, discuss each other, condemn, so also watch TV, where certain beauty standards are promoted to which most teenagers are far away. Talk to the topic of appearance, keep up the child, help and instinate confidence in His forces. Remember that study at school, preparation for annual tests, the surrender of OGE and the EGE - a stress situation for any child. Therefore, it is definitely not worth exacerbating it with its experiences about the fate of the graduate. No need to push the situation - to talk about the career of the janitor and frighten that if he or she will not come anywhere, they will have to put a cross on their lives. Do not have to! You still think about something. In the stressful situation, a teenager should not only be engaged and prepared, but also to receive some kind of discharge: that is, to relax, communicate with friends, to play sports, have hobbies.
The child moved to a new school. It is really scary - almost a new life begins, and, of course, the child sometimes wants to hide from everything. Of course, the first thing may deteriorate. What to do? Support your child in a word and case. Remember that any person, especially the child, needs time to get used to a new place and straighten your wings. Your task is simple - to provide a maximum of opportunities for successful studies: to organize a workspace, take care of the microclimate in the house, pay attention not only to performance, but also on the ability of the child, to vote with him the choice of profession. If you know that the child "lame" some items that will be needed in anyway, mean, think about additional classes and tutor. This is more efficient help than constant brainwashing and explanation, why need to learn.
The main thing, Do not force a child to learn, because violence is a bad way to interest the child with something . Human nature is so arranged that everything that is imposed is poorly absorbed and then rejected by the body. Only the feeling of something unpleasant remains. Better give the child initially understanding that at school he recognizes a lot of new and interesting, listen to him when he wants something to share with you, do not scold for misses (and bad marks - this is his miss), praise for minimal achievements, Do not make my homework for him, learn to be responsible for your actions and study, do not compare it with other children, protect it when there are claims from teachers to it. The child needs your understanding, love and support, and not your daily notations at all. Then it will not be necessary to make learning. And find a hobby with him: study study, and we choose the life path due to what we like.