Success is not luck, but a planned execution of small steps towards an important goal for you. Achieve visible results can only one who has a strong character. Even if there are no examples of personalities in your surroundings, which inspire feats and indifferent work on themselves, to raise character on their own. Allocated five traits that need to grow in themselves to young people:
Team player
Most modern youth are individualists. Forbes magazine in the analytical article noted that they are much easier to take responsibility for the project on themselves and bring it to visible results than becoming a cohesive team with a colleague and divide the tasks. An expert on leadership and management Bruce Tulgan in his book draws attention to the idea that the generation of 20-30-year-olds is much more important to get a "prize" for their work than to preserve good relationships with the team. Nevertheless, young people still have to work with the people of the "old hardening" - it is for this reason that it is important to learn how to find a common language with them and get used to divide the responsibilities, and not to take everything into your hands.
Teamwork's skill will be useful to you
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Will iron power
"Trapi Cossack, Ataman you will" - a few centuries ago he spoke the hero Taras Bulba in the Gogol's book of the same name. In the past generation, these words responded to the idea that even on the unloved work, you need to seek the pros and strive to change the perception of the situation. Modern youth such thoughts are alien - they are easier to change the company than spending a limited lifetime to work, which does not bring satisfaction. For them, the phrase carries another meaning: violation of the day of the day and the lack of time for a personal life in favor of receiving new knowledge and work until midnight will give their fruits. And this thought is true - to have a family never too late. It is better to provide self-material independence and only then deal with the device of a family nest with a person of your level of development than to start from scratch and disappointed in the elect, who does not want to grow as fast as.
Stranglehold
To seek your own legitimate ways is the goal of the younger generation. They are not disappointed when one by one receives refusals to finance the startup by sponsors or admission to a leadership position in the company. From each failure, they try to draw conclusions and understand why it was not possible to achieve the desired this time. This character quality gives them a coherent to the older generation: they eventually achieve their hectares and charismatics, which would be worth it.
Mentor as a native father
The younger than the person, the more important it is to find a spiritual landmark - that man who will become an example of which you want to reach. Given that the majority of the country's population is still outside the poverty line, for young people, the landmarks are not their parents and the nearest relatives, but those whom they see in social networks and the media. Modern 20-year-olds are not shy to write businessmen and ask to take them on the mentorion - and do the right thing. Under the guidance of an experienced mentor, a person with developed intelligence and enviable charisma will achieve his own faster. At a minimum, at the beginning he will receive a job in the company of his curator, and after a couple of years, the head of the department will become the head of the department or will begin its project at all, which makes a small capital.
You are not alone - many young men and girls face similar problems
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Ability to take lesions
Not everyone knows how to learn from their mistakes, but this last point of our list means no less than the rest. In order to overcome doubts about themselves, we advise you to read the biographies of publicants - Arnold Schwarzenegger, Stephen Hawking, Ilona Mask, Henry Ford, Michelle Obama. All these people occurred from ordinary families and initially did not have money for a comfortable life. Talking your truthful stories of victories and defeats, they make it clear that every person is able to go through the same way and succeed if she attaches enough strength and does not fall in spirit.
And what would you advise modern youth? What skills, in your opinion, are they missing? Write your answers in the comments.