Of course, it is necessary to work on the construction of harmonious relationships. However, even in this case, crises and problems are possible, which up to a certain point are the norm: as soon as the connection with the partner turns into a similarity of slavery, it is worth thinking how long you can live in this mode. We will give four signs that the relationship is outlined.
You start lose freedom
Of course, without compromises it is impossible to hold out in a pair for a long time, but the decision made should arrange you both. If you are in a situation that develops exclusively in favor of a partner, while infringement of your interests or contradicts your principles, this is no longer a compromise, but submission on your part. As soon as you understand that the connection begins to break from the inside, you stop taking pleasure from this union, perhaps you simply do not steam and the gap in this case will be the best solution.
Often the consultation of the psychologist brings peace to relationship
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You cease to experience joy while in relationships
In addition to the permanent work and development of relations, the Love Union implies mutual interest in the personal interests of his second half, the pleasure of what you are near. Quarrels and resentments will accompany any relationship, but they should not be "chronic" and destructive. The constant voltage in the company of the partner is the right sign of a close gap.
You are hard to stay near
For friends and relatives, you are just the perfect couple, but at home you try to disperse in different rooms, because you have left alone for you, it became unbearable. During your relationship, many unpleasant situations could occur, which caused confusion and even dislike to each other. Think if you can't change the situation, perhaps continue the relationship no longer makes sense?
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You do not have strength to continue these relationships.
Many couples are not despair, and if the problem of destructive relationships cannot be solved on their own, go to those skilled in the art that helps to correct errors and help in love to overcome the crisis. Very often, consultations of psychologists bring peace to the relationship of a couple, but it happens that it is already impossible to help relationships, especially if someone from partners suffer in a pair. Remember how you felt before you entered into this relationship? If the situation has changed for the worse, do you need such a destructive union?