"For what she is so with me?" - You ask yourself when you find out about the arrival of an already former friend. The betrayal of a close person to those who are always honest with others, survive is not easy, but perhaps. Unfortunately, this situation will remain in your memory for a lifetime, but over time you really will become easier - the details will be forgotten, the correspondence will be erased and only dry the situation will remain. We sincerely hope that this material will help you let go of the offense and stop experiencing your nerves for strength.
Remove the guilt
Responding to the question set up above, we say firmly: you are not guilty of anything. Forget about the words of those who claim to "always blame" both sides "is not the case. Life is so unpredictable and multifaceted that with each of us can easily have something that we least expect, even if we behave perfectly. One "girlfriends" are trying to hover a husband, others are discussing behind their backs, the third want to substitute the footboard at work - and these are only flowers. It is important to separate your actions from strangers - you are not responsible for the behavior of a friend, which is not enough conscience and upbringing to honestly tell you about envy and desire to stop chatting. If you can't realize this, then the problem lies in your self-esteem - work over it in the office of the psychologist.
While you are discussing behind your back, you go ahead of the gossip
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Sorry to unhealthy man
When you are not fair, people who do not realize themselves, do not betray you, and their own moral principles, they are honored and spoiled relations with those few who sincerely loved them. It seems to them that they come out of the situation with winners: Yes, they will notice the temporary effect, but after their time, they will cover the awareness of a shameless act. Believe me, there are no offenders who do not overtake this "Kara". So just a post of a person who has not enough character forces to talk to you at least from respect to the overall past.
Find new buddies
Do not lose faith in people: all people are good, only some have once offended to the depths of the soul, so they called and now can not cope with the mental problems independently. You will also find my girlfriends better than those who appreciate your kind heart and mental sincere. To bring the onset of this moment, more often go to the parties to friends, sign up into the sports section or remember the hobby of your youth - drawing, dancing, embroidery and other things. People whose friendship begins with mutual interest in each other, in the future it is much easier to maintain a warm relationship.
Look for friends in interest
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Do not hold anger to the traitor - the awareness will come to him much later, and so far only you spend energy to provoke negative emotions. Breathe full of breasts and live in pleasure, because you yourself should be the main person of your life, and people around you.