Surely you witnessed scenes (or even there were their member) children's hysteria in a public place. It is worth a mom to refuse to adored the chad in a new toy, the child falls on the floor and begins to bump on his legs. Young parents most often under such manipulations, and experienced are often moving to a cry. Neither the first nor the second option cannot be considered correct and, more importantly, productive. So what, let the situation on samonek? Of course not. We will tell you how to get out of this, without a doubt, an unpleasant situation.
Try to divert attention
The younger child, as a rule, it is easier to switch his attention. And only at the very beginning - the smoothed child will calm down will be more complicated. If the hysteria happened in the store and there is no possibility to move away in an less crowded place, sit down and hug a baby, tell me that you understand His feelings, offer to go home, and on the way to buy your favorite toddler's delicacy.
Do not prohibit everything in a row
Yes, there are things that can and need to ban, but constant wondering on the street like "do not jump on puddles!", "Do not draw on the asphalt here, draw there" clearly do not require your control. The more you will allow the child within the permanent, the less the baby will roll the hysteria on trifles.
Promise the child an entertaining game
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Do not be silent
Your cold "No, it is impossible!" Do not just help calm the child, but provoke an additional attack. If you think that it is not worth playing on this site, to gently explain to the child why, and offer to find another place to play, even better than that. It is important not to simply insist in its detriment to the emotional equilibrium of the child, but to offer him an alternative, so as not to strengthen the negative emotions that the child cannot be monitored by age.
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Offering an alternative, do it with enthusiasm so that the child "caught fire" the idea. For example, if you can't let buy a new set of constructor, offer the baby to collect something together at home from the already existing details of the old designer. Seeing how interested in the game, the child will quickly configure the new action plan.