Probably there is no stronger feeling than love, unfortunately, not everyone managed to find a person who will cause an incredible soulful response. However, it happens that the woman has not just face this feeling, but also choose between two men. As a rule, in the love triangle, all three sides suffer, provided that each of them knows about each other's existence. In society, such a situation is perceived extremely negatively, so the woman falls on either to make a choice in favor of one of the partners, or break the relationship with both.
What is the cause of love at once to two representatives of the opposite sex?
According to psychologists, one of the most popular reasons for the search for the second partner is a spiritual emptiness. The marriage does not guarantee a happy life, but I don't want to bring it to the divorce, for this reason the woman prefers to find a person who will not be all the time nearby, but will help solve some problems.
What to do if you feel attracted not only to your loved one?
Most often, the love triangle disintegrates under the influence of external factors: the second half knows about the existence of the opponent, friends and relatives begin to be resentment, the woman does not understand who to give preference or gets tired, tearing between two important people. So what about?
Take a decision on your own
Listen. What does your inner voice say? Competitives of friends and even loved ones can be viewed as help, but the final decision must take you yourself, since no one understands you that happens in your life.
As a result, you will have to make a choice
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Remember why you went to it
It happens that the reason why a woman finds one more man is bloated. For example, the husband was not attentive when you shared with him an important news, you were offended and decided to take revenge on, finding the "listener" on the side. However, there are more serious reasons, for example, you stopped finding a common language with your regular partner, it has changed its attitude towards you. In such a situation, you need to think about whom you are ready to go further, and with whom you need to say goodbye.
Talk to each
Before you make an important choice, talk with each of the men. You need to understand which of the partners is a greater sense of satisfaction and which of them gives you exactly the sensations that you do not have so much.
Represent the consequences of the choice
If you understand that the partner on the side at the moment is suitable for you more, still do not rush to break relations with a constant man. Perhaps there are children in your pair, think how your decision to destroy the family will affect them. Think again if the second partner really is such victims?
For a while, give up the meetings
Of course, the easiest way to see the lover less often. Listen to yourself, in which direction your life has changed after your meetings have ceased to be regular. Perhaps you did not experience strong love, but it was about attachment.