In the life of each of us there were moments when a call from a friend was distributed at night, which in tears pledged her former, and you probably comforted, but most likely it did not help.
It's not always easy to find the necessary words, often we are not just not unfulfilled phrases, but even offensive, although we do not want it. We have compiled a list of the most popular phrases that we often use to cheer up a person, but instead we bring even more pain.
"You approached each other so!"
You can't know for sure that it was going on behind the closed doors of the house of the girlfriend and her former man. Perhaps it seemed to you that there could be no ideal pair, but in fact both partners could suffer in this relationship. Without going into details, try to support a girlfriend without giving your own assessment with this relationship.
"I never liked him!"
This phrase you only emphasize that they always belonged to her choice dismissively, but were silent about it. Doubtful way to support an upset girlfriend, agree? Try not to tighten the negative conversation atmosphere, it is better to translate everything on what opportunities are now open before you are not lonely, but free girlfriend.
Do not express a negative opinion about the former friend of your girlfriend
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"Now you can do what you want"
Perhaps at one time you have experienced this relief when toxic relationships completed, but this does not mean at all that your friend is glad, at least at the moment, discontinuity. If a person does not feel the desire to go and "celebrate parting" in the club, you should not force him. Gather and come to sit and discuss the situation together.
"You have too high demands"
Whatever close friends you were, your tastes can absolutely not coincide. You may like tall brunettes, and your girlfriend is the guys of Scandinavian appearance. The same applies to the social status of the chief: you should not hint with a girl that the next time you should pay attention to the guy easier, and not the handsome in the club, which came on a new business class car, and instantly attracted the attention of the girl. Your girlfriend has their own selection criteria, and therefore there is nothing reprehensible that a woman seeks to tie her life with a man worthy in her eyes.