You may simply have a stunning relationship, however, being in bed, the passions of passion change dramatically. There is sexual incompatibility. The reasons for incompatibility can be completely different, psychologists allocate psychological, physiological and behavioral factors that we will talk about, and also try to find ways to solve the problem.
How does sexual incompatibility manifest?
Any libido disorders that impede normal sexual life can be attributed to sexual incompatibility. It can be expressed in the absence of orgasm, weakening attraction or even disgust to the process itself. Often the problem is solved by a simple talk of souls with its second half, however, there are cases when a specialist intervention is required.
What factors impede the normal flow of intimate life?
Education
Many already quite adult people still live with a loaf to parental opinion. Too strict upbringing, which did not provide for the discussion of the person's intimate life, leads to the weakening of the libido and continuous control of its desires.
Feel free to seek help to a psychologist
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Difference in temperaments
This can occur both at the beginning of relationships and after some time to coach. And if after the first sex, partners understand that they simply do not fit each other, then change the life line with a regular partner will not be so simple. Feelings have a weakening property, the same applies to the impulse.
Laziness
Of course, harmonious relationships, including in bed, is hard work. If one of the partners no longer wishes to continue to work on the atmosphere in a pair, the gap is very close.
Various dysfunctions
It is impossible to mention the variant of physiological disorders. It is already impossible to find a way out on your own, and sexual compatibility is nothing to do with the consultation of a good specialist.
How can I overcome problems in bed?
The most important thing is to find the cause, after which you can proceed to solving the problem. Feel free to seek help to a competent psychologist or a sexologist, if you feel that it is impossible to solve the problem only with your efforts.
Often, sexual problems are emerging in adolescence, when the risk of getting an unsuccessful sexual experience is great, after which the attitude towards sex can completely distort, as well as a person can earn quite real problems, like a decline in libido and the impossibility of getting an orgasm.
Try to find a compromise with your second half, let's say a partner who needs sex every day, may well go for concessions less than temperamental and agree to intimate several times a week, without exposing the second half an additional stress. If the problem lies in physiology, without a specialist and the appropriate therapy, it is not necessary to do. Partners who are simply tired and lost interest in sex by virtue of external circumstances, should try to diversify intimate life with the help of toys or a banal decimory change.