"I believe that we all have to constantly speak with each other," says Lydia. - It is impossible to be "rigging" and save in yourself the so-called "reflexists": suddenly your idea, thought or word will help a person at the moment when he desperately asks for the support of "over"? I love my life insanely - in this I was absolutely lucky - but like no one I know that it is incredibly difficult to preserve constant optimism and wear "pink glasses" without harm to vision is incredibly difficult. I do not like to learn life, I do not accept condemnation - I'm just talking to those who want to hear me. These are not stories, not an essay, not essay - they probably have no name. It's just a conversation ... "
"Love really happens different. The first type of love is called Eros. This is what we are experiencing in the period of love. Those "Butterfly at the bottom of the abdomen", the ester, attraction, attraction and once more attraction to the chosen one as an object of sexual passion, is a tide of the vitality and adding the brightness of the entire brightness. These are arrows of Erota - the little Son Aphrodite, the arrows striking in the heart and intoxicating feelings. It happens that he leads and rules you in life, and then it turns out in the inability to see happiness in a long relationship, getting into the trap "life", an infinite search for "butterflies at the bottom of the abdomen." Even the great gods were afraid of Eros, because it is impossible to resist him!
The next type of love is love-Storge. This is a brother-nursing love and a lot of common interests inside it. In general, interests: "I love you, because I'm wondering with you. I love you and want to spend time with you, sharing these interests. We are like a team, complement each other and feel the tide of vitality in this commonality. " Here there are elements of friendship - the string is not charged by the nerve of passion. This is a relationship with a light cool.
Love-mania ... Wish to dissolve in man, nerve, thirst for presence, sleepless nights, jealousy and desire to possess. Obsession and relationship from relationships: "I can not imagine myself without you!" Listen to "Je Suis Malade" performed by Lara Fabian and realize what I am ...
Love-Pragma. When "I love you, because ..." Because you are strong and bold. Because serious. Because you will be a good father. Because you respect, I can rely on you. Pragma is the ability to appreciate the partner and see benefits. Do not think that this is a mercantile or selling love, although if your lead type of love is Eros, it may seem to you - personally it seems to me :) This is love that is particularly pronounced in a pair at the stage of conservation of relationships when "Marshmallow - Personal "stage is already complete.
And finally, the last type of love is Agape. This is a high and clean love-acceptance. Greeks called her great love, unconditional. This is the acceptance of a person by creating God on Earth, this ability to love without conditions and the ability to learn in relationships. Agap is spiritual love. And everything is striving for her, but it is given units. "