"Yes, these are all temporary difficulties, we will cope," you console yourself after another quarrel with a young man instead of solving to parting. Remember the saying "Saving the drowning - the work of the very immentive"? In a situation where a crisis occurs in your relationship, it is important to analyze the whole joint path with a cold head and understand that you choose - change relationships or finish them. Recalls you about several axioms of partnership two emotionally mature people.
"He has a lot of work - he will write when he can"
Cut off during the working day of hundreds of text and voice messages is unreal due to employment. But to spend 1 min, asking from your loved one "How are you?", And to come in the evening to meet with him at least one or two hours can even the most busy man. All words about employment is just justifying the cowardice to admit that you are no longer interesting for him. Otherwise, he would suggest you to live with him the time until the current project completes, or at least meet at dinner in the restaurant. Who wants, he will always find time for a loved one.
"It seems to me that he is not interested with me"
If your man cannot talk to you, in parallel without playing a prefix or rewriting with friends in social networks, then he is bored with you. Try to tell your loved one about what you consider his behavior disrespectful to yourself. The problem can go from the family, where among family members is not accepted for a shared table and just chatting about everything in the world - instead, everyone is sitting in their rooms. In pairs where people are really interested in each other, they can walk in the park or dinner in the restaurant and do not take the phone in the hands at all - all this time they speak. If the guy's behavior does not change anything, then it does not care about your feelings.
Partners should help each other and be supporting, not to live for themselves.
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"Yes, I bring these packages, I will not break down"
It is difficult to imagine a raised man who will allow his girlfriend to go with heavy bags from the grocery store or will not help her remove the coat. Such little things together make up a picture of how a young man belongs to you - like a beloved girl or a breakdown horse. If your family dad always helped mom, like she, then such gestures will be perceived by you as proper, and not excessive behavior. Do not be afraid to ask for help from your man and be weak, otherwise why join a relationship with a person with whom your life is not becoming easier?
"Come on somehow, I'm still with the boys"
If you are sick or sad, and your young man instead of helping you cope with bad well-being, constantly avoids negative emotions and wants to see you only smiling doll, think prey. Without mutual assistance, neither the same relationship of adults is impossible. In your future life there will be a lot of difficult moments when you need support for your loved one: Can he help you solve the problem if "merges" from such a trifling as a bad mood?
Tell us in the comments, did you experience the experience as in the examples above? What decision did you take - to work out problems or part?