You are insanely in love with each other, perfectly walk in the same apartment, but almost every joint vacation turns into a nightmare. Why is this happening? We decided to figure out.
You fall into new conditions
As a rule, if you live together a decent amount of time, you have time to distribute the duties: you know who and when takes out garbage, takes children with classes and travels for products. On vacation, ordinary algorithms do not work, you both are in an unfamiliar atmosphere. For example, there was a problem with air conditioning, you thought that your man had already taken care of reporting on the reception, and he waited for this from you. As a result - a new quarrel. With such trifles, of course, you can cope, but the mood is able to spoil very strongly, which contributes to the rise of negative.
You are waiting for a partner too much
It seems that the lack of a co-time, which steals the work, you fill in infinite conversations in the cafe at breakfast, you will spend the nights, enjoying each other, and do not part for all two weeks. Reality, as a rule, disappoints: A man does not plan for long conversations, and after breakfast runs away to check mail, and even in general it was to sleep before dinner, and not to get up at dawn to make you a company on excursions. The next quarrel is provided.
We are too much waiting for the partner
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You spend too much time together
It would seem that you were so waiting for that all the time you will spend together, and a man may seem like this. However, after three days, you begin to notice the habits of your partner, which at home could not pay attention for a long time. It turns out that he can argue with you and disagree in many matters, and you have not even suspected about it. Naturally, the first reaction is negative.
You compare it with other men
With great probability, besides you in the hotel there will be other couples. Of course, you are the best man for you, because you chose it. However, unknowingly you will still compare your pair with lovers behind the next table in a restaurant or with vacationers near the beach. Our psyche tends to look for positive qualities in unfamiliar people, which is why they often seem more attractive to us than people near us. Often the comparison is not in favor of the partner, which, again, leads to shakes. Try to concentrate on the fact that you have come to relax with your loved one, instead of searching for minuses in a partner and find out the relationship.