- Rose, before going to the registry office, what lovers should know about each other?
- Family is a serious project, where there will always be ups and downs. And this is normal. Because relations are built on conflicts, thanks to which partners are better learning each other. I always recommend brides at meeting the groom's parents to pay attention to how potential father-in-law refers to potential mother-in-law. See how dressed woman, whether she has fur coats, decorations, whether her husband happy with dear gifts. To watch the son communicates with his parents. And then draw conclusions. If the future bride sees that the mother-in-law walks in fur coats, it means that fur will hang in her cabinet. If the mother-in-law is attentive to his wife, then the girl will not be deprived of attention. If the head of the family has a hand and he has a cottage car, it means that in her family there will be all the same. This is an axiom. As for the advice of the bridegroom. There is a famous proverb: you want to know how your wife will look like after 10-20 years, look at the mother-in-law. This also applies to family relationships. If the mother and daughter live a soul into the soul, support each other and consider the best friends, then they will also treat a man. And the mother-in-law will always find a common language with future son-in-law and will support it in everything. If the mother and daughter live like a cat with a dog, then the mother-in-law will never stand on the position of the son-in-law. This is already verified. That's what you need to pay attention before going to the registry office.
- According to the plot of the nationwide, the dormitory film "Lonely the hostel" of the Swash, which Natalia Gundarereva played, taught brides to everyday wisdom. Do you really have to instruct girls?
- I always recommend remembering one simple truth to remember: a woman for a man is a pleasure object. We live in a male society. And the democracy in the family will never be. As long as a man wishes a woman, she is the queen. He will love her, care for, take care, pampering, wanting children from her, etc. As soon as he had sexual interest, she urgently needs to take some action. At the same time, no one stipulates separately, in addition to sexual attractiveness, the wife is obliged to cook, wash, create a comfort and atmosphere in the house. Amenities included for free. A man does not even think about it. But if the woman does not do this, he will find another.
Rosa Syabitova is proud of its children - Ksenia and Denis. And hopes that soon her family will become even more, grandchildren and new relatives will appear
- Daughters give the same instructions?
- I declare traditions and live in them. Accordingly, children too, especially daughter. I believe that purity is the most expensive thing that there is a girl. And you need to talk about it. And with this thought get married. Why white wedding dress? It symbolizes the innocence and purity of the bride. Fata is the same. In the old days under the headdress, the white cloth was put. And the mother-in-law checked, it is in the daughter-in-law or not. It is better to marry innocent, give her purity to the spouse by setting up the first wedding night in a beautiful place.
- But psychologists, on the contrary, recommended before the wedding to live for some time together ...
- Life will put everything in its place. I can only say one thing: our great-grandparents were not, although they did not hear about psychology. And those capital truths that I say are tested by time. And then there were no divorces. And the fact that psychologists are now offered, nothing good for a woman carries. Judge for yourself: a man has a beloved at the level of an elongated hand and, at the same time he has no obligations. Elder, left and nothing should. And she? At the broken trough. Youth is a value that quickly passes. And then, when she is thirty, she comes to me, like a goldfish: "Rosa Raifovna, I want a rich, young, beautiful, successful." And how old are you? "Already 30." Goodbye, baby. Vasya with a fifteenth autobaza is also a wonderful candidate. What rich and young grooms can we talk about?
TV presenter strictly follows his figure and regularly visits the gym
- And you yourself do not get married? As a shoemaker without a boot, which does not have time for a personal life?
- My time remains for my personal life. Another question is what you mean by this. In my age, personal life is not a man. This is my job, hobbies, house construction, children, friends, wait of grandchildren. I am not a shoemaker without boot. You recalled me about the film "Lonely a hostel". There Swah, as soon as she got married, immediately left the profession. And I'm not going to leave. I did a lot so that people respected me, including for my behavior. Yes, my life is not ideal. I make mistakes and honestly talk about them, so that someone my experience is useful. And on the sixth dozen marry it is funny. Everything has its time. I have a man, but I don't need him in my family life. And then, at my age it is difficult to find a partner who would like. Men are growing quickly. Why do I need an old man? .. I am not guilty that my husband died. I wanted to build up with him, children and grandchildren to educate. But it did not work. For the second time I married, only when the son and daughter matured. And I realized that I don't need it. In the choice between women's happiness and happiness of children, parental function is more important. Therefore, I don't want to sleep with the old, and I do not touch young people. They have their own life: they must love, give birth to children.
- What about a glass of water in old age, because of which many are so worried?
- Why do you need a husband, who has a destination only in this? A man is a divine creation that requires a lot of attention and time. And he really deserves it. A woman as a rule sacrifices to all. This confirms statistics: married men live longer, and married women are less. And to get a glass of water, you need to get married in time, give birth to many children to make even more grandchildren. And then someone from them will bring a glass of water. If it did not work with this - earn a lot of money, then the nurse is exactly serving.