- Anna, a lot of conversations went about your parting with Grachevsky. And yet: what was the main reason?
"Indeed, there were a lot of conversations, and the oil in the fire poured the media. They talked a lot about the "treason" - allegedly I changed, and he changed, is not the cause of the divorce. The reasons are usually a lot, but the most important and terrible problems faced not only we are, but many other families are when the wall of misunderstanding and disorders are growing, which accumulate as a snowball. It is necessary to be able to pronounce in relation to each other at once, which is not so. Otherwise, this snowball falls on his head, and suddenly it turns out that there are many claims to each other. There is distrust and even irritation. At such moments, the most false information is perceived as true.
- rumors that allegedly broke out an affair with a young guy, and you were the first to offer my husband to dilute ...
- This is not true. In fact, the divorce was a mutual decision. A lot of rumors Vital: And Boria walked in a big womanist, a loved one of young girls. And any of my communication with the representatives of the opposite sex was perceived as a betrayal, even if I collegically communicated on workers. They said that I have another young man. Unfortunately, all this affected our joint life. And, to my surprise, especially on Borola. He - a man tempered, in show business is not the first year, but reacted it very strange and unprepared. If even for many years of life, immunity developed with him, then he does not have. As I was not provoked only in family life - I have never told anyone about it. But now I can openly tell me that I sent letters and reports some young ladies, argued that they were found with Borea. I periodically showed some photos. And I managed to find the forces to resist this. I remember a message came: "We must meet." I met - the girl told me, looking into the eyes, all the details about what was happening where Borya was when I was pregnant. I tried to close my eyes and understood that the "good" people are full. And for me it was a blow that Boria was reacted to the same rumors in my address. I thought my man would first of all defend me and not believe rumors and peres. It all became another brick for divorce, and we accepted this decision mutually.
- Deciding on parting to you with difficulty?
- Certainly difficult. At that time, I got from different sides: many people turned away from me. And my circle of communication is predominantly Borina friends, because all my loved ones live, mainly in Kharkov and St. Petersburg. A half-year-old child remained in her hands: you don't need anyone, no work, there is no stability, and the soil goes out under the feet - then it was very hard. The status of the "former wife of Boris Grachevsky" did little, except for the reassigns and smirks on the faces of others. And, of course, a wave of a yellow press, clarification, fading of the past. I burst between lawyers, looking for work, plus psychological attacks on all sides and pressure from Bori. It was a little death, although I was only 28 years old. But it was such an experience that I was hardening for life. I regret that I loved the man so much that he lost herself. Even my mom said: "You are a creative person, you need to develop yourself, and your man will appreciate it more! What are you shaking over him, how about the child? " And I soluted! This property of my character is to dissolve in a beloved person, forgetting that there is another life, out of relationship. And this is a big mistake, and I will never allow her again.
"The girl told me looking into the eyes, all the details about what was happening, where Boris was when I was pregnant."
Lilia Charlovskaya
- What are you talking about?
- There were a lot of all good: since I do not regret what our meeting has happened. I am grateful that we have such a stunning Vasilisa, and it turned out to be so beautiful thanks to him. Boris is an interesting man, he taught me a lot. I learned a lot about the cinema - working in "URALASH", where I worked about 4 years old, I knew the world of crankshers, I was on the same platform with people who worked in this industry for 40 years, and it is a great honor for me. And the film "Roof", where I worked and was the right hand of Boris, leave a big imprint in my life. This is not just a picture, but a work that changes life. It was there that I was closer I got acquainted with Borea, and our working relationships turned into personal.
- Who is your daughter Vasilisa more like more?
"I can say that she looks more like dad, although there is something and mine: in any case, when we go together, it can be seen that she is my daughter. From me from Vasilisa interest in dancing, from Pope - the ability to listen to music and society - she likes to communicate with people. And I even gave it to the preparatory group of kindergarten. I see how it is interesting to communicate with the children and the world around us. It enjoys and develops with sound speed: it seems that she is not two years old, and all four.
Of course, the genes took their own, and she is a very creative child: already talking and reads poems. By the way, at one time a year and a half, too, perfectly declared poems in kindergarten in the nursery. Vasilisa loops with pleasure, draws. She herself dressed up, comes up with himself all sorts of caps and puts them on his head, as at one time it did Coco Chanel. And when I ask Vasi: "And who are you?" She answers: "Chanel, Chanel". In it, creativity is not simply present, but Burlit. In the future, I think will be dancing, music. By the way, Vasya already loves to play the piano and even herself asks to "play piano."
- Do you allow Boris Grachevsky to see the child?
- I'm in every way "for" this communication. No matter how our relations have developed, it seems to me that Vasilisa is the child who needs male energy. She is not the girl who is enough only moms and grandmothers. She is interested in the whole world, and it is important that the male start in the upbringing is present, so I very much support their connection. Unfortunately, not so often they see, because Boris have so much time to communicate with her daughter, as if I wanted. We are all busy people, and this is understandable, but I believe that he will later have more free time. Vasilisa dad loves, always waiting. We would like to come true with Vasya to happen more often!
Often, meetings are held under my supervision: they spend time at me at home. And the child is comfortable to stay in the usual atmosphere. Although personally it gives me some internal discomfort, but for the sake of her I was ready to go for these concessions, if only she was good.
- Have you helped a former spouse with housing? Does it pay for the alimony?
- There are certain laws for which property acquired in marriage is divided into half. And when there is a small child, the spouse is obliged to give him a place of residence. And since we have a very small daughter, he left his house, and an apartment, and his daughter acquired housing, where she lives with his mother - it says the law. That is how it all happened, not without problems and angular, but we all decided with the help of Kati Gordon. Alimony is always paid without delays. Dad behaves very noble!
According to Anna, Little Vasilisa externally looks very similar to Boris Grachevsky.
Sergey Ivanov
- Do you have enough for life?
- It seems to me that there can be no such concept. Always missing. We are girls! I do not live on the alimony of the former husband. If money remains, then they are postponed to Vasilisa. I earn money myself and providing our family.
- Anna, you are now the status of a free girl. What is it for you?
- The status of a free girl is not applicable to me, because I'm busy girl, and I have no time to organize a personal life: I all spends the work and my child. We can say that I have the status: "Busy", because for me it is now more important than family, career and self-development - what I am doing. And the relationship with the opposite sex is developing only a working character, which I am glad. After family life, I want to self-realize and achieve certain success, and personal departs in the background.
- What are your future plans?
- Oh, I have plans for Napoleonovsky! I try not to rest. When the output appears, my panic begins. It seems to me that you could make a lot of things, earn money. I want to develop. I do not like empty days. Of course, this time I can spend with a child, but since I am a worker mother, then I think about the future. I want to achieve a lot, and I apply a lot of effort. If I won't insert sticks in the wheels, and they will support morally, then I will turn the mountains. My energy is enough so much that I can even provide the city. I want to do more and more. I strive on television to go to a more serious genre of work. I want to return to directing activities and go to serve in the theater. Though I understand that for this you need to grow a little, but I am ready, and then everything will be fine.
And most importantly, the new year will soon, and I want to celebrate him in a family circle, make a grand holiday to Vasilis, so that he will remember her for life ...