Now you will not surprise anyone with matrimonial treasures. If earlier, the Ajulter, especially from the wife, was very strictly condemned by society and in many countries it was even punishable in legal terms, now the morals have become much liberal. Many women, tired of married relations, often problematic and conflicting, intrigue on the side.
Anna Yasnitskaya talks about how to live in a love triangle
Sometimes these are random and one-time connections, and sometimes - long-term relationships, which in time actually turn into a "second marriage". For some reason, a woman often can't get away from their official husband - it may also be the need to upbringing common children, and material or housing addiction, and the presence of feelings - not so many lovers as already related. With the "second husband", it supports relationships in this case, which are more based on intimate proximity and emotions, mutual understanding and mutual sympathy.
Over the past 10 years, the amount of betrayal increased by 50% among married women and 60% among married men. At the same time, 56% of men and 34% of women who decide on treason do not consider their marriage unsuccessful. Of course, "on an empty place", such triangles do not arise. Scientists have found an interesting relationship - men and women imitating orgasm with their spouse are more inclined to search for sex on the side. Alicia Walker, Professor of the University of Missouri, in his book The Secret Lives of Cheating Wives published data from their research that shows that women in most cases change in order to satisfy their sexual needs and avoid divorce.
Women in most cases change in order to satisfy their sexual needs and avoid divorce
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The survey participants confirmed that the betrayal gives them the opportunity not only to preserve the marriage itself, but also good relationships with her husband. However, there are practices and situations when too active in sexual plan a woman just has little one man, or she has a need to receive sexual pleasure with different men. In this case, we can talk about prevailing in its sexual behavior of "male type" of sexuality.
Oddly enough, but the most "convenient" for a married woman with a "love triangle" option is the situation in which she meets with a married man, since in this case both parties tend to keep their families. The same applies to the situation when only sexual relations are associated, and the lover does not pretend to lead a woman from the family. It can be said that this is the most optimal option for preserving not only and not even so much family relations as, in fact, psychological comfort. If a woman knows that the second partner needs it only for sex, it feels much better than a woman counting on some deeper relationships with him.
Unlike a man who can have "on the side" to the second and even third family, the woman does not work because of physiological reasons. There can be no "hidden" children from other men who are unknown to her husband (except for children from previous marriages raised in the Father's family). Therefore, any relationship "on the side" for a woman is much more complicated than for a man. Including due to the need to be protected, or to hide the whole life from her husband, that a child he considers general, not really from him.
In other respects, women are often looking for mutual understanding and emotions.
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There is another nuance - unlike a man, more located to polygamy, most women are focused on relationship with one partner. In the "triangle" they are more difficult for them, more likely that they will think about the prospects for creating a full-fledged family with a lover. This, in turn, can lead to psychological problems, especially if parting with her husband and the creation of a new family with a lover is impossible for any reason.
All of the above does not mean that the "love triangle" for a woman is contraindicated. In modern society, in which the ideas of feminism and sexual equal rights are quite strong, women no longer feel with progressive society and they are obliged to play for the old rules, many women appeared that calmly feel in relationships with several men. Today, a woman has the opportunity to choose a comfortable for her (from the point of view of psychological and physiological (sex) needs) Type of relationship with a man, ready to accept her choice. More and more families in which the husband is not against the wife to go to the side or both partners legally have other relationships. A woman no longer need to be shy and hiding, she has the opportunity to set their rules for the game and play open on them.