One of the main tasks of the parents is to help the child to develop a self-discipline that will help him throughout life. We will talk about the most effective ways to develop this useful skill.
Make a schedule with the child
Very often, children are difficult to focus on some kind of fact, even if you ask the baby to fix the bed, he will find a reason to avoid uninteresting things to him. That is why the schedule can help turn ordinary cases in habit. Start with simple: Write, how much the child gets up, the bed fills, wash off, breakfast sits down, etc. Do not forget to highlight a few hours to rest so that the child does not perceive the schedule as a punishment.
Explain the child each rule set in the family
To put a child at a table, not allowing it until he finishes to perform homework - a direct path to the development of disgust for learning. Instead, explain that as soon as the baby does an important thing, he will not need to return to it throughout the day. No violence!
Leave time on vacation
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Hyperopka does not lead to good results
If the child constantly forgets the necessary things for the lesson at home, and you are always happy immediately bring them to school, expect that the child will become responsible, definitely not worth it. Let the child on his experience understand that each of his actions have its own consequences, and not always positive. Let the child "fill the bumps".
Do not try to get the result instantly
The development of self-discipline may require several years, so you should not roll the hysterical to the child, if after a couple of weeks of your effort, it is not used to washing dishes after lunch. Be persistent and consistent, only in this case you can help your child.