"Yes, you just hold it in Frendzone," the next girlfriend argues with you, which believes that a man and a woman are two different worlds, which are compatible with the framework of personal relationships. Studies show that your girlfriend is not so wrong - Scientist Bleshka River from the University of Wisconsin interviewed 88 couples of different friends, offering them to answer questions. According to the results, the men were more inclined to experience sympathy for their girlfriends than those to them. I decided to deal with the question and allocate the rules of "safe behavior" with friends of men.
Decide with your ideal
When you both are not in the taste of each other, it becomes easier to communicate. So you can go dinner together and drink a glass of wine, without thinking that kisses and sex followed. It is advisable to discuss your ideal with a friend so that he definitely realize that you do not have and cannot be a joint future. All this becomes possible when you are two adult independent people who respect the right to choose another and its unwillingness to spoil the friendship of sympathy. Yes, and if there is such a variety of potential partners around your thoughts, it is unlikely to concentrate on the other as an adoration site.
Agree at the very beginning
Do not start friendship with a person if you understand that he is presented to you. So you only upset it in the future, when your emotions splash out, and it will remain in shock with a change in the situation and will be forced to stop communicating with you. Starting to communicate closer than just familiar, it is important to discuss all the nuances of your friendship to once again confirm the similarity of intentions. Let me understand that no courtship from his part, except the cultural manner, such as opening the door or help with putting on a coat, you will not be taken.
Communicate the company together with your young man
Machine a friend with a boyfriend
Two understand that you are in strong happy relationships, you do not plan, you will convince a friend in this. It is possible that the young man will be a good friend of your friend with whom will be happy to spend your free time. Be sincere and feel free to talk about how much you love a partner. You do not need to worry about what a friend will feel at this moment: if you are indifferent to him in sexual terms, then the maximum that he will experience - the joy for you and your man.
Less bodily contacts
Hug a friend for farewell - this is the norm of behavior. But kiss him on the cheek or allow you to raise yourself in hand - it's too too. Control the behavior of your friend: if you feel uncomfortable or at least doubt it, it means that something is wrong with your communication. Do not take gifts and colors without reason, and if a friend says, this is for your good mood, honestly talk to him about why you do not like such a model of communication.
Find a couple of him
Generate a friend with free girlfriends or friends. As soon as he finds his love, your communication will become less close - this is normal, as people prefer to share news with partners and only then with friends. However, it will relieve you from anxiety and the need to reflect on whether a person is right with you for communication, and not with the prospect of future relations.