To begin with, we understand the difference between loneliness and solitude. Privacy is intentional care from active communication. It is possible to call this state by controlled loneliness - on my own initiative limiting communication with the outside world. In a state of privacy, you can do everything that the soul wishes: you can read the book, but you can go on the journey. As a rule, in solitude we are busy with something pleasant.
Loneliness, on the contrary, is characterized by gloomy sentiments: "No one is before me", "I am a completely one of the world", etc.
It is loneliness caused by the natural course of events. It can be attributed to the departure of matured children from the family - nothing can be done, sooner or later it will happen. Forced or unexpected loneliness occurs when you lose your loved one.
And in the first, and in the second case there is a "vacuum of communication". Where there were other people, now emptiness, and filling out this emptiness entirely depends on your self-sufficiency.
From loneliness, of course, no one is insured. However, there are some categories of citizens falling into the so-called risk group.
First, these are people with a "closed heart" - those who have no matter to the rest. Start care about other people, show them compassion and participation. You will stop winning on yourself and take care about your thirty-three misfortunes. There is always anyone who is a hundred times worse than you now.
The second risk group is people who have not found their calling. They live someone else's life. Read about the importance of searching yourself on my site.
So, summarize: if you are afraid to stay one on one with myself, it means there, inside, the person who does not like you at all. Let it sound for you as a signal to the beginning of internal work.
Sometimes loneliness is the only chance to get acquainted with himself, cleaned from all sorts of masks. You are something more than a mother, sister, daughter or head of the division.
Enjoy loneliness, that is,. Turn it into privacy, be self-sufficient and harmonious!
And my weekly astrological forecast will help you to learn about the trends of the current week.
May 2. Try today not to express discontent, whatever things it concern - you can aggravate the problem even more. Do those who are familiar with your other people as much as possible for helping to other people.
May 3. Do not give in to the first impression, do not give fast answers, do not make hasty conclusions - sharpness and hasty in thoughts and affairs can confuse you today.
May 4th. It is logical that when you ask for a new one, you are forgiven with the old one. Take care of today with old habits and beliefs that prevent moving forward.
5 May. With the performance at this work week it was not easy. If you are on vacation - more rest, if you are at work, then try all the most important thing to transfer the next week.
the 6th of May. Time to be reassured today to communicate with children or younger relatives. The more active your games and entertainment, the better the result will be.
May 7th. Sunday is the most harmonious day this week. Go to visit well, communicate, negotiate, ask for advice.
Zhanna Wei, Master of Chinese Astrology and Feng Shui