At the beginning of the relationship, Flirt is the basis of the foundation. An important aspect of flirting is not only the appeal views, ambiguous poses, but also the ability to say the right things at the right moment.
Search on the Internet issues many tips on the art of flirting. For the most part, all these tips are designed for the female half of the population. However, these tips are not always effective, and sometimes there are even funny and repulsive men. And instead of the relationship, to which she so sought, a woman receives only obscene offers or complete ignoring from representatives of the strong sex.
The more you try to enjoy the man, the more you repel it
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Let's analyze the most frequent mistakes. One of the main, of course, is the narrowestness of actions. The more you try to enjoy the man, the more repulse it. That is why you need to learn correctly flirt. You do not need to immediately disclose all the cards. Make a man to suffer, let him break his head, who you are actually. Change the mood, just not too dramatically: be merry and talkative, then detached, appear and disappear for some time. Naturally, do not forget about non-verbal signs of attention.
The whole point is to give him to understand about his favor, desire, and speak completely opposite things, creating a certain dissonance. Play with him. Thus, you will make him interested in you, he wants to reach your essence. However, not all women manage correctly and unobtrusively flirt. In everything must be a measure.
Do not be frankly considering strangers
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What kind of mistakes most often allow women? One of the primary mistakes is too early to make it clear that the man is interested in as a sexy object. Many women are read in the eyes as soon as they notice an attractive man. Believe me, nothing but pity does not cause such behavior. Be up to your desires at least at first, if you count on long-term relationships.
There is another common reception - cut the circles with a fingertip along the edge of the glade. It can be used, but not too fond. If you play great, again, you can get an intrusive offer from a completely unpleasant unfamiliar man. Also should not be frankly considering strangers, especially in a large company. The best option will be playful short glances, smile and relaxation.
Smoothly go to the eyes. You need to give to understand the man that you chose it. Here it is useful to all the well-known practice to "shoot with eyes": a short look at him, on the wall, the table, then again on it, but already a little longer. No need to climb the room aimlessly. So a man will not guess about your interest. If your eyes meet, hold the glance, do not assure your eyes right away. Perhaps he will decide to approach. But do not overdo it - I do not like anyone when they are stamped on them.
Let a man think he chose you himself
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It is absolutely not necessarily defiantly painting and dressing, as an easily accessible girl, will not lead to anything good.
When a man decided to approach, here you need to build a dialogue correctly. Do not hang on it, thereby not leaving him a choice. You are confident woman. Let a man think that he chose you himself (at least you contributed in every possible way). It is important for a man to think that he won you. Another important remark - flirting should occur alone, because the noisy company is around, especially if there are girls in it, it will greatly reduce your chances of the success of attracting a selected man. Just normitize the moment.
You are a woman, so an aggressive pressure is inappropriate here. A man is very easy to slow down, and when you barely familiarize - it is generally simpler. Take patience if you plan to further develop relations, and not just sex for one night. Flirt is also needed to understand you yourself, do you need this man.