After several years of living together, you feel that your intimate life is not the same: the sensations stumbled, you are trying to avoid moments when you have to stay alone. Familiar, isn't it?
However, there are cases, and quite often, when spouses manage to find a way out of this delicate situation. We selected for you several effective tips from the experienced experience of spouses and family relations.
Attitude towards sex is directly related to the attitude to marriage
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First, sex is based on sensuality
Naturally, with years a relationship, and sex itself, change. If in your youth, you can afford to disappear all night and look fresh on the morning, then after forty people begin to lose confidence in their own attractiveness. Especially when a man constantly points out a woman on the imperfections of her body. Even the homework, children ... So it turns out that the body would sleep a couple of hours, about sex in such a state and speech does not go.
Experts argue that attitude towards sex is directly related to the attitude towards marriage. Against the background of a pleasant joint accommodation, the satisfaction of intimate life is born.
Answer Honestly yourself: How harmonious is your marriage? Try to find the place where the crack is formed in the relationship, and start working on this problem.
Be emotionally generous to each other.
Oddly enough, the pairs constantly reproach each other, criticize with friends. Where did the tenderness be treated? People who do not miss the expression of emotions and love usually support the degree of emotions and in bed.
Show a little more participation: Bring a man's coffee to bed, arrange a romantic evening or go for a walk at night. Find your ways, thereby strengthening the sexual connection.
You are too tired for sex
It happens that you want to sleep, and your husband suddenly "activates". It seems that it is difficult to refuse - it is offended, but also against yourself to go unpleasant. Happens and vice versa.
In this situation, who is on what is much: if there are children, they are sent to her grandmother, someone transfers sex at the morning before work and so on. For many, it is not constant, but the quality of sex.
Go for a walk at night
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Do not carry workers in the family
Leave workers in the office. You will always have time to view contracts tomorrow or when there will be more time. Ask a girlfriend to call back later if she is too obsessively demanding to discuss the next Uhager. For serious calls, acquire an answering machine. If the work issues are urgent, think about transfering the evening the passion for another day - you still can not relax, downloading your head with work.
Make hints
Think how the mood may change if you officially declare my husband for breakfast that sex is waiting for him in the evening. Agree, not the best start. Another thing is when you playfully hinting, make a call to work, arrange a romantic dinner and meet it after work. This will immediately configure her husband to the desired way.
Remember that the man is not a girlfriend you
It should be understood that the man needs to conquer every day, regardless of how much you lived together.
What is happening in reality? Wives constantly complain to husbands on changes in their appearance: how many kilograms they scored, what problems with the skin they appeared over the past couple of years, how many teeth they cured. Women do it in order for their man to be denied and said: "You are beautiful!" But this does not happen, because the man does not understand these hints. He believes a woman for word. As a result - a man avoids an intimate connection. Think, do you achieve the result?
Remember that the man is not a girlfriend you
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The main thing is not despair, intimate relationships are quite realistic to establish, you only need to make a little effort.