Of course, shouting "so it will not go! It's all wrong! " not necessary. If you and your partner are accustomed to directly discuss intimate themes, tell him what you lack in sex. It can be done right in the process of sealing. For example, putting a man's hand on the plots of your body, who wanted affection.
If your husband or boyfriend prefers out loud to not talk about what is happening in the bedroom, you will have to solve the problem without words. Report that in bed you do not have everything smoothly, it is possible, becoming less initiative and maintaining the partner's caress. It will open him to the idea that in the intimate sphere it is time to change something.
It will be nice to watch some romantic film with bed scenes and comment on that in the actions of the heroes you like, and what is not.
Sometimes the light roots of jealousy are helped. Start a little more carefully care for yourself. This will certainly cause compliments and interested glances of men. Feeling that you are popular, your man can start paying for you more attention.