How not to go crazy in Quarantine recently did not write only the lazy. The Internet filled out numerous lifehaki on how the benefit of the case is to experience the monthly isolation from the benefits of civilization and shopping. Let's listen to a professional in the field of relationship.
- Sergey, what is quarantine from your point of view?
- Today we are experiencing a stunning situation. Men and women who are associated with close relationships, higher forces - conventionally called them so, collided in a closed space. Still in order for them to understand and feel that man next. And this is a super unique case for the entire practice of building a gender relationship.
- Can I specifically?
- For the first time in many decades, husbands and wives were together around the clock in a closed space. No one speaks by the woman on the part of the compliments on her new hairstyle, dresses and so on. The husband cannot in the smoking room to discuss some pressing news with colleagues and feel its importance to the full.
Coach-Energotherapist Sergey Quartarne
- That is, quarantine is the time for self-analysis and a honest look at his life?
- Yes. Including. I do not want to offend anyone, but most of the couples, especially after a three-year-old "honey" period of living together, does not always understand what they at one time entered into relations.
- Three - some special digit for family experience?
- Yes, this is the first checking period in family relations, where there is no fatigue from life. As a rule, after three years of marriage, there is an opportunity to conduct correction of relations with the help of a professional. Modern people, unfortunately, no one teaches to see the project in relationships.
- What is the project?
- From the most understandable - children. That is, the marriage is most often for the birth of a child. But there are other projects in personal plan, uniting a man and a woman. And the role of the first violin is played here, as we live in the women's world.
- This is the news, and everyone speaks about the opposite!
- Perhaps in politics and economics, the world is ruled by the world. But what concerns the energy, the ability to motivate a man to action at this level, then in this regard the woman is in the first place. Question in the other: Does she know about it? In most cases - no.