At first glance, the bed is not the most suitable place for sincere conversations. At least during the intimate process. Nevertheless, according to the results of studies of specialists in the field of psychology, completely immersed in silence, too incorrectly.
So what topics to support during sex? Does communication with the partner affect the quality of sex affect? In this matter, we have to deal with.
Of course, it is not necessary to discuss each other with each other in the most detailed, but a constructive conversation aimed at improving the quality of sex in a pair is hardly bringing some kind of harm to your relationship. The most important thing is to convey the point to the partner, while not touching his feelings.
We will tell you how to beat a man to sex, and what you should not stutter.
The first rule : Never compare your man with previous partners. Nothing other than disappointment, you will not bring him. The same applies to conversations with women. Therefore, if you want your current partner to repeat some intimate "chips", which delivered you pleasure in previous relationships, hint on your desires, without moving to the personality of the former. Perhaps a man will have to reconsider their approach to closeness with you, but he will do it if she wants further harmonious relationships, including sexual.
Do not forget that the brain of men and women during sex works in different ways
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No need to get accused , in the colors perturbed exactly what he does not suit you, and transfer its shortcomings and weaknesses. Otherwise, you risk plenty of men complexes, and instead of correcting the situation, he will look for a person who will not reproach him.
Do not forget that the brain of men and women during sex works in different ways. Interesting fact: during the process, the woman can simultaneously reflect on something completely outsiders. With men, the situation is different: their brain is sharpened to perform one task at a given time. Therefore, it is difficult to switch his attention to something else when it is configured to beat sexual records. When you show attempts to talk during sex, it can turn into a lack of erection and knock down.
However, not everything is so bad. For many men, it is not difficult to talk a bit in the process. But carefully follow his reaction: if it is not configured to the conversation, you do not need to force. In the event that you want to get an assessment of your appearance, speak the first one, thereby let's understand that it is not against the pair of words.
For many men, it is not difficult to talk a bit in the process.
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It is important for a man to see what he does everything right, he needs your reaction. Male brain perceives not only visual material, but he also needs to hear you. Many couples surveyed said that they were drowning with moans and screams, which affects the capacity of the orgasm. When a partner plays a partisan, there are doubts: do I do everything right?
Therefore, give a man confidence in his male strength: actively react to all its actions, do not silent. However, it is not necessary to replay - thereby you are embarrassed by the partner, and it will begin to doubt your honesty.
And of course, it is important to praise each other. Almost each of us in something doubts, so the compliment is a great way to remove tension and uncertainty.
Compliment is a great way to remove tension and uncertainty
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Pleasant words are important primarily for women, since they most often doubt their perfection. From their mood and confidence depends on how your intimate meeting passes. Speak to her, as you are excited by certain parts of the body, raise her (or his) sexual skills.
Such a positive tone will create the desired atmosphere, which will help to surrender to feelings and relax, and this is the most important thing for the harmonious building of sexual life.