We all know how vulnerable to the child's psyche is, and therefore to raise the baby, it is necessary to approach all the responsibility, thoroughly think about everything you want to tell your child. Today we decided to talk about the most harmful phrases for the educational process.
"Do not eat it, you will heat up"
Concentrating on the harmful qualities of certain products, you only inspire the child an extraxiety, in such a situation he will have a desire to switch attention to more useful products. Special caution is worth showing parents of teenage girls who face ridicule of peers about their appearance. Instead of painting all the harm from the pack of chips, read the list of useful and delicious products along with the child.
the child has the full right to behave in childish
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"Do not Cry"
Probably the most popular phrase that every parent uses every parent. Most often it can be heard to the boy, because according to the same parents, "" Men don't cry, "but after a few years such parents will have to face the psychological problems of their teenager, who since childhood is used to keep everything in themselves. The psyche has a limit of stability, you do not need to experience it for strength.
"All you say, - nonsense"
Each child has a topic for which he can speak infinitely, and very often parents do not support the interests of their own child. There is a conflict, because of which the child is forced to seek understanding outside the house, and who knows where he will find him. Even if you are not interested in what is trying to convey the child to you, do not reject it, instead, gently translate the topic, however, giving the baby to speak.
"Do not behave like a child"
How can a child behave, except for childish? Many parents do not even think about it. Of course, the older the child becomes, the more duties fall on his shoulders, but it is not necessary to demand even a teenager impossible - at this stage of life, he is gaining experience, learns, knows himself and its capabilities, to behave like a child - his full right.