An expert is a parapsychologist, a psychologist, a health specialist, a certified member of the "Professional Medical Association of Traditional and People's Medicine Specialists" Sergey Lang - talks about infidelity from a male point of view.
Most women live with a solid belief that all men change their wives. They seem to them that, no matter how old for your husband, he will still find a woman on the side.
First, I want to immediately break this statement. It is impossible to generalize everyone, all people are different, and everyone has their own views on life and their priorities.
Secondly, if a woman lives with the conviction that her man will change, then she will not work on relationships, since she has no incentive, and it will really lead to treason. In addition, with their thoughts and statements, we can create a program that is ultimately implemented in our reality. Remember that thoughts are material.
Therefore, you need to believe in your relationship and trust your man. Of course, treason from the man is often found quite often, my practice shows that about 70% of men, and 20% of women change from 100 pairs. But today we will deal with the treason of a man.
Why is still a man changing? What does a woman doing wrong in the relationship? I will be the top 5 of the most common reasons that lead to treason.
1. Birth of a child
The birth of a child is always a holiday, but, unfortunately, as my practice shows, this is a serious test for a relationship that is far from all. 80% of all means to change at the moment when a child appears. With the birth of the child, the usual way of life is completely changing. The woman pays to the child all his time, but it is necessary to understand that the father's feeling comes much later than the maternal. Therefore, even the desired child in the family becomes a serious obstacle for her husband, which prevents him from spending time with his wife. Sexy life also gives a failure. In this situation, a woman needs to understand that there is a serious threat to family relationships. Men are like small children, and they need to always pay attention. In addition, most men are egoers, and they won't want to enter your position and infringe on their lives. My advice to you. Find time on your husband. It is better to leave dirty dishes until the morning and find time to have sex. Dirty dishes My husband will forgive you, but no closeness - no.
Baby of the child - a serious test for spouses
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2. Violation of space
Each man has their own hobby. One is fond of fishing, the other loves to spend time on football stadiums, and someone prefers to play computer games. A woman can sacrifice its interests for the sake of family, most men will not do it. Therefore, if you fully impede your husband to do your favorite thing, it repels it from you and destroys your relationship. In essence, his man is another child in the family. It is important to keep the golden middle. Of course, you must express your position with the words "now not the time", "Let's another time," but not to put an ultimatum and make a certain choice. Respect your husband's hobby and, if possible, share them.
3. Jealousy
Jealousy is a terrible quality that broke a huge number of families. Rhenya, you kill the desired woman in the eyes of her man. You are unsure of yourself, you show him that there are other decent women, and even if a man does not change you, then your jealousy may make him think and eventually push it to this. In addition, nothing annoys more than jealousy in scratch. Jealous to each post, you constantly call the husband a sense of aggression, and he loses interest to you as a woman. Be confident, become a person. Try to just attract attention to yourself.
4. Financial difficulties
A man is a getter, and when he gets to contain a family and be supporting for his woman, he feels at height in his own eyes. In our life, there is never a financial stability, and if the problem is delayed, the relationship is beginning to suffer. A woman begins to put pressure on her man, tell him that he is a weak, loser, and in general a man is difficult to call him. This is a big mistake. The fact is that in difficult moments you need to believe in your man, tell him what he is strong and confident and that he will succeed. It will make him go ahead and justify your expectations. If you are to humiliate it, he will not feel a man next to you, and it pushes to treason. The husband does not want to go home, to his wife, where scandals and insults are waiting for him. Therefore, many men have a mistress - after all, before the mistress you can hide all your problems, and she will see in him the hero, but to hide problems from his wife hardly succeed. Try to always support your man, give him advice, believe in it, and he will try.
You need to have sex not only to engage, you need to talk about it and speak with your partner
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5. Problem in sex
Dissatisfied with sex man by nature will strive to start relationships with another woman. The amount of sex does not mean its quality. Therefore, the main thing in sex is a variety. You need to have sex not just to do, you need to talk about it and speak with your partner. Many are discussing their sexual problems in the forums, instead of directly discuss everything with her husband. It is also very important to show that you love sex no less than he. If you ask only about his preferences and keep quiet about yours, then you will not be so desirable for him. Sex is a pleasure for both. Therefore, you also have to talk about your interests, tell him about what sensations want to get, etc. It will cause interest, because for a man it is very important to be a good lover for you. Make it so that he also tried. Otherwise, he will try with some other woman.