The fact is that modern society is too fitful fashion trend, and therefore a person changes his opinion, depending on how society is currently the situation. For some reason, people are in no hurry to figure out the premises and the causes of a particular action, but necessarily condemn the result of what happened. I will give a simple example. The other day we went to relax on nature and drank the bottle of wine, removing a funny video that included dancing, Crimean species and directly ill-fated wine. The mounted video was put on the Internet and published in one of the VKontakte social network groups. And what do you think noticed people: beautiful nature or funny dancing? That's right, only two "obscene ladies that didn't even bother to remove garbage."
And how do you prove silent critics, that most of the video shot before the opening of the wine, and the residues of the meal were hidden in the backpack? And no matter how society loves to express his "Fu", thereby showing that it is better than you. But we all understand that few people now do not sin a glass of wine! And I'm silent about the garbage: every time, walking around the city or leaving for his days, I gave a divide, where all those defenders of nature from social networks live, if there is there, then there are wrappers and bottles? A hypocrisy - the opposite is bad about what you do myself.
Isn't a hypocrisy, at a minimum, in relation to yourself, blindly follow the fashion directions, refusing personal preferences? I agree that the person is the creature of her old and he always wants to be part of something more. Probably, therefore, he "enters" in a kind of "sects" ("Vegetarians", "pitching", "fashionable critics"), and in order to know others about it (they say, I'm not alone, I am also in the flock!) - Shouts Along the throat and hurry to cling to someone, defending a personal opinion (well, in the sense of the opinion "sect"). Probably, so we prove our own significance.
As for the topic of hypocrisy in relations between people, then, in my opinion, it remains only to hug and cry. I never understood one thing: why communicate with people who do not like, and why do you like those who like? Clear things that are different situations, and often you have to intersect with those that I would like to see even less often than ever, but this is not a reason for hypocrisy. And it's not even about the fact that it is bad ... how much, probably, the energy is spent on trying to portray good attitude, despite the fact that everything explodes inside. In addition, sooner or later, even the most naive person realizes that a hypocrite is spinning around him, and nothing besides disgust, he will not be able to experience it. Trust is easy to lose very simple, and it is extremely difficult to restore. So why hypocrite? And I will try to answer.
The fault is that all of us somewhere in the soul of hypocrites is fear. We are afraid that we will turn away from us, will not accept, we are afraid of being so understood, to remain alone, in the end. And we are afraid that someone learns about our feelings, because in the modern world it is too fashionable to be independent and self-sufficient. In addition, everyone dreams of being better than it is in fact (if you are not an idiot, of course). And since hypocritical people do not have a manifestation of personal opinions, they seek to please their judgments around others, thereby hoping that they will become better in their eyes. But it does not work so, honestly tell you.
More than the rest scares me a hypocrisy in that in the end, it causes a person to wear a "mask" and not to do what he considers it necessary, but what, in his opinion, wants to see society. Such people are very easy to control and it is really scary, because the story can tell a lot of examples when such behavior served as a bad service.
In fact, the hypocrite betrays himself. That is, hypocrisy is self-deception, which leads to nowhere; This is something like a bad habit that seems to facilitate life in society for a short time, but in the end does not lead to anything good.
Can you imagine how easier would it be, to seek people to help? Well, yes, I would get someone several times in the face for the inappropriate opinion about someone, or some would lose work ... but in fact everything is done, everything is for the better! If you figure it out, then people are hypocritical because not from a good life. Why not say goodbye to all and all who do not like, and do not do that it gives pleasure? The man myself pens into the corner myself, and then can't get out of it, because of what it begins to make bad things. It is from fear, from hopelessness.
Of course, if you stop the gaze, it will not solve all the problems, but it will become substantially easier. It's as if you are in the mountain with a heavy backpack: if you lose a backpack, it will still have to rise on the top, but it will be much easier. In the end, life is a short thing, and somehow stupid to spend it on pretense.