Where disappeared romance? And where are the real men and part-time gentlemen? In the female environment now these are the most frequent questions. And in communication and in the form of alphabetic launches on dating resources.
The more interesting to search for answers. In whom or what causes?
Women
Men most often romance in a teenage period. The one when they choose not those stuffing the bumps and become wiser and more careful. By the way, where in the same life stage girlish romanticism? With your early (in comparison with male) ripening. He, as it were, although diluted by eternal doubts: "Emmm ... It seems good, but not quite right my." Despite the fact that "its" many cannot understand after forty.
When we (men) are warm, gullible and even faithful, then according to youth, we are often sent to the section of the eternal riders, which are necessary at the moment of any support. The experience is remembered, well, further "vain efforts", referred to as romantics, are reproduced with smaller funeral and caution.
"His" many can not understand after forty
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Age
In principle, it is quite logical that the farther in the forest, they are in FIG. Pink dreams against the background of life experience are formed into cynicism and rationalism. And the expression is "easy and pleasant" - I want to associate not only with herbal tea after a bath, but also with relationships. With the age of men, they do not want immersion in the "severity of being". It is like a natural course of nature. In a small ironic table, I tried to deal with their ripening.
18 years old - I will give you all the colors of this world.
25 years - I will give you the paints of this world.
30 years - I will give you particularly intimate paints of this world.
35 years old - I do not mind becoming one of the paints of your world.
40 years old - do you have colorful days behind?
45 years old - I would give, but the paint dried, so to speak. Black day. But the white will promise. Peace?
Money
Romance is based on their availability. Are there many areas where they pay decent money? Few. They can be listed on the fingers of one hand. That is, 90 percent of the current cavaliers are balanced averaged at the level of 60 thousand rubles (and this is if we are talking about Moscow). And not because the Lodii and Rotosi, but just this is a long-term time ("no money, but you hold on"). Recently, Deputy Prime Minister Golikova called the condition for the growth of fertility in Russia. No, it's not sex. This is the availability of housing. Allegorical - availability / lack of money. Romance.
Jointly cooked dinner, well, or watching the film in an embrace much better showing applub
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And such an average man faces a regular female query: "Need a strong, bold, decent. Take care, protect, indulge. " Or "I am looking for responsible and secured for these relations." Real, Karl! Here is the same: "I believe in love. And I want a smart, kind, generous. " The feelings are right immediately beats in the nose.
"Where is my hero with whom I will be in joy and in the mountain of money." There is at least irony, but again with grandmas.
In short, romance in today's time is the status. Men status. And this dish is served under the sauce "must": "I do not sleep for money, without them, all the more."
It is clear that you want to live beautifully, but no one has canceled the reality, as is her awareness. Like the fact that the cooked dinner, well, or watching the film in an embrace much better showing applub.
And otherwise how is it? "Portion of Tequila! - No, Baltic bottle! And you are not tired of romance? "