We continue to receive letters with stories that are difficult to be silent - they are incredibly vital, familiar, probably, each of us. Our readers Oksana decided to tell about how the power of the will became the starting point for major changes in her life, and in a positive way.
"I have always been a company man, my friends are mine," says Oksana. - With many of them we communicate from childhood, even when I lived in a small town. My company was with me while I studied at school, then I went to the university, and finally moved to Moscow. I can not say that I am a brown man, but it is easy to lent persuasion, which I often regret. As in many towns of urban type, in our practically there was no entertainment, except for evening gatherings behind a glass of "fuel." Naturally, I did not want to break away from the collective and actively participated in all alcoholic parties. At first, my borrowed was not reflected on me, it was not easy to get up in the mornings on the pair, but these are my troubles and were limited. After a couple of years I graduated from the institute and moved to Moscow along with a couple of best friends from the common company. Life in Moscow "hit" me on my head - everything was different here: I had to work a lot to live more or less decently. What are there relaxing gatherings!
"It was difficult for me to say" no "
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It took a year and a half and suddenly Nataska called me - the same friend, with which we once sat on the bus to Moscow. "Oksan, how are you? You do not want to meet tomorrow, I have not seen you for a long time, "a friend said me. I was not against. If I could look into the future ... Our meeting turned into weekly alcoholic bends, everything is like that in youth. Only now I began to understand that my body is not ready for such loads. In one of the evenings, I passed by the mirror, threw a quick glance and was horrified: a woman looked at me, older than 10 years old, with fat burgers around the body, launched skin, hair, and in general, all my "bow" spoke about the emacut of the hostess to your own body. I was disturbed. When I managed to lose the natural beauty that was always proud of? Why can't I say "no ', when a friend with friends offers to drink" a little bit "? That day I realized that I don't want So look, I want to like myself first of all.
Already the next day, when Natasha again "broke the phone, inviting me to another club, I" stepped my throat 'and said "no". Probably, it was the right decision in my life. The following six months I visited the cosmetologist and psychologist No less often than the office, where he worked at that time. I was important if not to return what was with my body earlier, then at least get rid of the effects of the effect of alcohol on my appearance.
"My body was not ready for such a load"
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After a year of our common efforts with specialists from the world of beauty and sports, I began to envy myself: smooth skin, clear contour of the face, dry muscles and incredible self-confidence. Did I find the strength to give up toxic friends? Yes. Of course, we tied up a lot, but I understood that it could no longer continue, my life and its quality depends only on me. I wish everyone who read my story is to believe in your strength, nothing prevents you from cutting the connections that pull you on the bottom, the big changes are impossible without loss, but it is worth it, believe me. "
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