Perhaps about 10-15 years ago, someone would be surprised by the Phenomenon "Woman Career", but not now. In our modern world, the weak floor holds senior positions, many women are becoming at the head of their own companies, open shops, beauty salons. In other words, the space of business in the market fill. Let's figure it out when such progress (or regress) occurred in the psychology of a woman and for the benefit?
Initially, we all know that a woman is born to continue the kind, in her destination it is already recorded to become a mother, his wife, a good mistress, to respond to the comfort in the house. This is what a man wants from his chosen. And here is a career? What place in the life of a woman is given career?
The psychology of female careerist is to be strong, be able to count on yourself, for their strength. Naturally, a woman should make a choice, what criterion for her life success is a family or work? It is impossible to stop on two chairs, have time to make 1000 cases at the same time.
Why does a woman pull more to work, and not to the family? There may be several options here.
In the modern world, more and more women prefer to be implemented at work, and not in family life
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First, this is the absence of your family, a beloved man in the life of a woman. Because of this, the weak floor feels an emotional hunger, sadness and want to switch to something else, take himself entirely - just not to meet with the truth. Although it would be more logical to disassemble this topic, even if psychologist's office: why am I still alone?
Secondly, the snag can be in a woman's life scenario. For example, if the daughter observes a strong, volitional mom, which herself earns everything, drags the whole family for himself, then an example of a mother is already being laid in herring. Yeah, you have to be strong and do everything in this life itself, otherwise you will not live! Of course, my mother will emphasize: they say, look, daughter, and learn, the man now weak went.
Thirdly, the desire to build a career or discover its business can be due to the talent of a woman, the desire to take place in life. One of my familiar dreamed of becoming a judge from 12 years and confidently moved up the career ladder before his current status.
And yet I can confidently declare that there are unsolved personal problems of personal careers for the permanent employment of women careerists. I often observe women in his office in psychological sessions, their request is associated with the lack of personal life or dissatisfaction with a man who is near.
However, psychologists are confident: any career officers have personal problems
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What to do?
There is a simple practice to identify its true needs. It is enough to take Watman, several magazines and start cut pictures with a picture of career and family elements. Then one side of the Watman paste "family life", and to another - "career". Sit calmly and start watching one, then on the other side of the hour, day, two days. And at one fine moment you will see how the truth goes to the surface, and you can accurately understand what you and your heart really want.
My psychological experience shows that the percentage ratio between family and quarry is possible in the ratio of 70% by 30%. The main thing is to have a balance and comfort in the family.