Dear girls, I will not feed you with illusions, telling that there is a certain formula (or a pattern of action), applying which time and forever exclude the probability of betraying from the opposite sex. Not! This formula, unfortunately, does not exist, otherwise it would be enough to study and forever close the question with treason. But it does not mean that you need to sit and wait, "will" take you ", unlike other girls who have already encountered this situation, or not.
Yes, there is no such formula, applying which you can completely secure yourself from situations to change, but there is a certain procedure that will minimize the emergence of this problem, we will talk to you today. So, proceed.
The first and most importantly, what follows to understand, this is what a man goes not to that woman who is more beautiful, smarter or slimmer (for him these criteria do not play a key role). He leaves from the state that he is experiencing next to you. Yes, yes, it's not worth it to be surprised, it is pure truth. A man goes out of another woman, he leaves you, remember this moment. From here there are all consequences.
A man goes not to another, but from the state that he is experiencing next to you
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Please note, I'm not talking about those men who have not yet come and "change girls like gloves." In such a situation, you already depend on you, and the fact of treason will occur in any case, so it is very important to make the right choice in your life. So, girls, if your man is a serious and responsible guy, then you can influence the condition that he is experiencing with you.
Let's deal with how to do it:
1. Well-groomed appearance. It should be understood that men are in essence to a greater degree of visuals. First of all, they look at the "picture", the appearance of a woman and only then - on its inner component. So the nature is arranged. Many girls think that when their relationship switched to a higher level, you can relax and walk with not always painted hair, periodically forgetting about cosmetics, comb and feminine things, because we are already loved. Cute girls, of course you, of course, will not stop loving, but what happens in this case? Everything is simple, your man either quietly starts to look at other women (which look more spectacular than you), or lose interest to you as a woman, and you will no longer excite it. Therefore, if it is important for you to be always desirable for your man, try to be in a tone and do not make yourself an overlooking, hiding behind with children, workload at work or something else.
Try to save romance in relationships
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2. Femininity. Girls, answer now yourself for the following questions: Whether you have such situations when your man has offered you to take your bags with your products, and you refused, giving him to understand what we cope? Did you take the hammer in your tender handles to score a nail? Have you ever revealed a faucet in the kitchen or in the bathroom? And now think well and tell me when you did all this, did you feel like a fragile and a gentle girlfriend? Of course not! But this is very important, being in a relationship with a man, to show your femininity, softness, fragility so that your favorite person felt like a man next to you. Do not demonstrate all the might that you are a strong woman and you can raise 10-20 kg by one little finger. It is better to show that you are a gentle, a fragile creation that needs male strength. Let us understand your young man that without him you will not cope with any task where men's physical strength is required, and then your man will see the gentle girl who wants to love and protect.
3. Self-development. It often happens, the girls fall insanely in love with their young man and begin to win on it, forgetting about themselves as a separate person. Do not do so. If one person develops in the relationship, and the second is on the spot, it is sooner or later they will break out that life is arranged. Therefore, so that you do not have this, do your inner component, your fill in. Your man must be wondering with you. Start reading useful books, visit conferences, seminars, trainings, sign up for yoga, dancing or gym. In other words, make it possible to develop and make an interesting personality from you.
Take yourself self-development
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4. Adoption. If you initially began to build relationships with your young man in order to "adjust it" in the future, then this is a big mistake. "To break" a man as a personality for you, will succeed. Provoke him to go to the one that I love him as it is - also yes. Make me to regret that he married you - definitely yes. But make it your ideal - this is something from the category of fiction. Therefore, a man should either take as it is, or not to be with him at all. There is no other. If you have chosen the first option, you forget to compare your young man with anyone else. Stop it to "cut" for each occasion (find yourself a normal work, throw at least the garbage, you are not capable of anything, etc.). Instead, show your man as you love him and are ready to support it in any situation. "Support" - this does not mean to get a job on 3 works and contain the whole family while he has a difficult period. Remember the 2nd item, about which we talked above - "feminine"? So, "Support" means to be close to your man, believing in it, to be fragile and gentle creation, for which he wants the "Mountains to roll", overcoming all obstacles.
5. Personal space. There is such a category of women who control each step of their man (SMS, calls, surveillance, etc.). This behavior is primarily an indicator of low self-esteem and lack of confidence in its chosen one. Sooner or later, your man gets tired of your press and wants to breathe with relief somewhere away from you with a self-confident girl (temporary or forever). So that this does not happen, we need to remember that every person should have a personal space. Any strong relationship is based primarily on trust. Therefore, you should not constantly suspect your loved one in something, instead, let him understand what you love and trust him.
Comfort in the house is important
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6. Comfort in the house. Every man wants to come there, where a loving wife is waiting for him, in a warm cozy house, with a hot dinner behind a covering table. What happens in practice? A young man comes home, in front of him sits a tortured, irritated wife, all the house is scattered, dinner will not be heated. He tired sits down at the table, and at this time there were even more problems from the stories of his wife. What does a man happen in the head at this moment? Every time he disappears the desire to come home, and he constantly begins to look for reasons to linger at work. Unfortunately, I know many such families, and it is very sad. We, women, should be a little wiser, try never to discuss the problems at the dinner table. Meet your man with a smile on your face, tell about something pleasant. Be for him a reason for joy, the sun in this glossy is that your man wants to quickly return home where he is good and comfortable.
7. Proximity. Girls, sexual life in married couples also plays an important role. Be always attractive for your man, do not deny yourself in beautiful underwear, do everything so that you look at yourself in the mirror and have seen a stunning girl in it. I am not talking about any standards of beauty, where you must be 90-60-90, with long luxurious hair, with perfect eyelashes and broad eyebrows - no. The main thing is that you liked yourself. Then next to your man you will feel confident and liberated. He will definitely feel and will appreciate.
These are key moments, observing which you can maximize your relationship from the situation from your loved one. I hope my article was useful for you. Be happy!