The personality of a person begins its formation at a very early age. For the most part, a person forms not so much inner as external factors. The ways are addressed by parents, relatives, friends, etc. The small child has no own behavior model, so he binds her from people around him. The process of adopting self-person, separate from others, occurs approximately until the age of majority. To this age, a person usually already knows who he is capable of.
After the final formation of the character, it is rather difficult to change something in yourself, because this form of behavior was formed for years.
Do not take out anger on your relatives
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Difference character traits
Very often, people seriously reflect on their character: that they prevent them from life, and what, on the contrary, leads to success. If you can not decide what exactly throws you on the life path, and what features and features you would like to purchase, write them down everything in the column, pre-exploit the sheet into two columns - strengths and weaknesses.
Let's see what features can be attributed to strong, and which are weak.
Strong
His goal
Each person sets itself the goals, for the most part, of course, real. For someone, career growth is important, for the other - material well-being, and the other can strive to get as much knowledge as possible from different regions. However, not everyone comes to success. People do not always have enough sun, to reach the end, and sometimes the goal remains unreadable. If you know that purposefulness is your distinctive feature, you can be sure of success.
Perseverance
This item follows from the previous one. When a person goes to the goal, he must be consistent and persistent. Only persistent people turn their dream into reality, no matter how unattainable this dream seemed.
Will
This quality is necessary in situations when a person starts some matter and he needs to reach the end. This quality is especially important in the situation when you need to cope with bad habits.
Organizations
It is not always easy to subjugate your day graphics. In our life, many nuances that distract from important cases - it does not matter at work or at home. But do not worry, such quality as the organization can be developed. Buy a planner where you will paint the day by the clock. After some time you will not need auxiliary tools, and you yourself can greatly plan your day or even a week.
Be merciful
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A responsibility
Very important quality. Without it, it is difficult to send life to the right track: create a family or get a job. As a rule, this quality vaccinates parents in childhood. However, it can also be developed in adulthood.
Sociability
To live in society, it is important to develop communicability in yourself. After all, life among people implies conflict situations, the establishment of contacts and many other social processes.
We led the main qualities inherent in a person with a strong character. Now let's see what applies to Weak traits.
Pessimistic
People configured negatively rarely achieve success. They see the world around them surrounding them with gray and dull. They do not want to strive for anything, because, in their opinion, all this is meaningless. Try not to treat life so seriously, relax and think that not everything is so bad as it seems to you.
Excessive emotionality
It is quite difficult to establish business and personal relationships, if you are constantly shouting and sharply express discontent. If you accumulated anger and disappointment in you, do not hurry to frighten it on others, especially on the relatives. By this you only spoil the relationship.
Envy
One of the most destructive states is envy. Not only is it crumbling communication, but also leads to serious diseases. Neighbor bought another apartment - pleased. Girlfriend meets with a pretty secured man - she is with him because of money, and there are still a lot of such examples. Eradicate this feeling, direct the energy with which you envy, in a peaceful and productive channel.
How to develop strong qualities
As we said, it is quite difficult to change a person in adulthood. However, if he wants changes himself, then everything is in his hands. Remember, in what situation this or that quality was manifested. Analyze that you have turned out in the columns and what changes are necessary for you personally.
Be merciful
If you want to become a strong person, understand that it is impossible to seek your goals at the expense of others. A strong person will always help someone who needs his help.
Repeat on facts
Do not give emotions to take over you top, strong people are always based on the facts, build specific actions in the mind. Only retaining the cold mind, you can achieve something and avoid trouble.
Be bolder
Risk, but also know the border. Without this, you will not be able to understand what is capable of. Just knowing yourself and believing in your strength, you can achieve real results.
Communication skills are needed in our society
Do not go blindly for others.
It happens that, taking an important decision, you have already made your choice, but still advise with important people for you. You must understand that other people make decisions based on their experience, and you need to lay your own way.
Of course, it is impossible to say that, to acquire strong qualities, you might decide all your problems. However, they will greatly help you achieve much more and in personal, and in professional life.