If you have a child, sooner or later you will come across the problem of choice: to give a child to a kindergarten or leave it at home.
The question is quite complicated, and it is definitely impossible to answer it. It all depends on the individual characteristics of your child. We invite you to consider each of the parties, after which you will be easier to make a decision.
Unlike school, the garden is an optional educational institution. From this make the choice becomes more difficult. Kindergarten will solve your problem in case you and your husband work, grandmothers and grandparents are not able to stay with the child, but nanny for you is a non-disabilities.
One of the main factors in favor of kindergarten is the socialization of the child, the opportunity to gain communication skills among children and with adults. After that, he will be much easier for him to establish connections with people in the future.
In the garden, the child learns to communicate
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However, some mothers decide that their child will be much better at home that they themselves will be able to give it the necessary base before entering school. Perhaps and you decide to do the same. But do not think that it will be simple. The child is not easy to concentrate in the native walls. However, you can drive it into special early development studios, good, now there are a lot of them, and there is from what to choose.
Pros and cons of kindergarten
The garden is laid in the Future School Learning
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Permanent stress
Kindergarten - absolutely someone else's and incomprehensible for a child. At home, he was accustomed to receive love and parent support, the garden cannot give him the necessary level of psychological comfort. Therefore, in the garden, the child cries a lot and does not want to go there later. Children are very important to feel support and love on an ongoing basis, only then they will succeed.
If the child is an introvert, he will be very difficult. Such children should sometimes spend time alone with them to restore sincere equilibrium. The garden is less suitable for this.
Negative from the rest of children
In the group with your child there can be a variety of children with different upbringing. Surely there is a couple of hooligans that will serve the rest of the bad example.
Children learn to fulfill tasks in the team
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Permanent diseases
Most children who are driven by parents. They simply cannot often stay at home, so they have to give a child to the garden, even if the child is sick. Refuse can only if there is a temperature. Because of this, other, healthy children, also begin to hurt.
Pluses of kindergarten
Clear routine of the day
For a young organism, it is very useful to stick to a clear schedule, because then the likelihood of various diseases is reduced, sleep is settled. However, even adults are difficult to teach himself to go to the same time.
Tears to discipline
Since the children in the garden are a lot, educators need to organize them, so children in the garden follow the established rules. The garden teaches a child to eat in the team, participate in team games, shows how it is possible, and it is not necessary to behave among other people.
Helps find independence
In the garden, the child remains one for one with his problems, so he just needs to learn to cope with them on his own. He himself has to eat and dress.
The child is gaining experience of communication with adults
Before you get into the nursery garden, the child lives at home surrounded by close relatives. In the garden, he faces other adults, whom the child learns to obey. It comes to understanding that there are other important adults in this world, whose words should sometimes listen. Especially useful this skill will be in elementary school.
There is a gradual transition to schoolfold
The Garden Program offers a child to get the base around which its further training in school will be built. He will learn to receive information not individually, but in the presence of other children, will learn to defend his opinion.
Receiving communication skills
The kindergarten group is the first team of your child. On the one hand, as we have already spoken, this situation leads to stress, and on the other - the child needs collective interaction. Again, the experience of solving conflict situations will greatly help him at school.