Often we fall in a situation where it all depends on our ability to adjust contact with other people. However, not everyone boasts this skill. Indeed, it is quite difficult to understand the first time how to approach one or another person.
There are many psychological techniques, thanks to which you can agree with an absolutely any person. We have prepared for you ten psychological techniques of proper communication.
Method number 1.
If you are scheduled to be an interview, you should know that an ordinary person remembers the information you need the best in the beginning and at the end. So in the presence of several people applying for the same position as you, try to be either first or the latest on this list. When you find yourself in front of a potential employer, be sure to look into your eyes, but do it calmly: some people perceive this gesture as passive aggression. But, usually, looking into the eyes, we show our interest in conversation.
It is important to correctly build communication
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Method No. 2.
There are often cases when the boss stays in the poor arrangement of the Spirit and here everything becomes not in itself, especially when he causes you to his office. Once in the office, sit closer to him. Surprisingly, people in such a situation reduce degrees of negative. When a person is sitting close, swearing with him is difficult psychologically. It is advisable to turn around in full to show your location.
Method number 3.
In a situation where you are talking to a colleague, and he, in turn, is in no hurry to tell you the truth, see him right in the eye. This method usually disarms your opponent. It feels discomfort and tries to fill the hanging pause. It can be said that this is a method of unobtrusive psychological pressure.
Show interest in the interlocutor
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Method number 4.
People tend to show sympathy for those whom they care. Use this technique. Ask a friend from whom you want to seek about a small favor or help. Believe me, you are interested in a person, since on the subconscious level it will know that you trust him, which means he can trust you. Over time, you will achieve your goal - it will pay all your attention.
Method number 5.
Another effective way: remember and consume the name of the person with whom you communicate. Again, on the subconscious level, a person will assume that you allocate it from the total mass. In addition, follow the movements of the interlocutor: fill up his postures and gestures, it will also help to get the location of the person. Usually, this method helps in personal communication and works well in the direction "Woman - Man"
Sit down to a closer - this will reduce the level of aggression
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Method number 6.
Once in public transport in an hour of peak, you do not need to scream loudly and swear trying to get to the exit. Use the following technique: Catch a look ahead of the standing person and look at the clearance between him and nearby passenger. Intuitively man moves and give you the road.
Method number 7.
Strong emotions bring together. This means that you need to be near your object of adoration at the time when his emotions will be at the limit. We are talking about positive emotions. For example, a man crazy about horror films or dangerous attractions: make it a company, be the person with whom it will share emotions.
Method number 8.
Try to get rid of such phrases as: "I think," "I suppose." The interlocutor seems to be not too interested in communicating with him and try to get into common phrases. Sly reception: If your work is to work with customers, put a large mirror behind your back. Thus, you will reduce the chance of rudeness to a minimum, as it does not want to see yourself at the time of aggression.
Method number 9.
Take care of others. At the psychological level, people are drawn to those who show no signs of attention to them, do not be indifferent to the requests of friends and colleagues, always help than you can.
Method number 10.
Watch your opponent in order to find out what they want to seem in the eyes of others. So you will understand the essence of a person. Trace the gestures, a reaction to certain words, most likely, a person will allocate keywords that have the most important meaning for him.