Relationships are not particularly popular in society, but sometimes become a forced measure. Usually, we remember the history of this kind in a negative context: rarely, when such relationships end positively.
Such relationships can end either a break or strong marriage. The third is usually not given. There are examples of similar relationships with a good end when they live in different countries, but nevertheless work on maintaining communication. For example, sometimes, but still meet, they write letters to each other, fall asleep, communicating with Skype. In any case, you need to find time, even if you are far from each other.
Try to meet at least sometimes
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Experts from leading research institutes believe that the reason in the wrist distance of people lies in technical and economic progress. People receive a new job in other countries, there are no alternatives to them, so they have to leave the soul mate for a while and go to another country to work / learn. However, in the development of technology there are also its advantages for personal life, such as dating sites where you can find your half at any point of the globe. People get great opportunities for moving, sometimes putting material well-being above the personal, based on this we get a large number of couples, which remains only remotely.
Good self-esteem - the key to healthy relationships
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In Russia, the number of so-called "distant families" is growing steadily: approximately 5% of the total number of pairs. These people live in different cities / countries, but they are satisfied with everything, and they do not see sense in divorce.
The question arises: Why some pairs break up, and others are quite calmly withstand the long-term separation?
Everything is simple here. People who have already built the right attitude towards themselves, as a rule, can be in relationships at a distance and not to experience any discomfort. Acceptance of yourself is formed on the basis of the relationship to our parents: whether they helped to form a good self-esteem. These people can exist in a pair at least in the same apartment, at least a thousand kilometers, nothing can change their opinion.
Anxious people who are incredibly suffering alone - the most supplied. They are easily influenced by others. These people include self-confidence and paranoia: they can easily naphantize themselves than their partner is engaged in, being outside the access zone for the second half. Usually they associate themselves with a partner, so any separation for them is equivalent to loss of particles. If you feel about this type, you can advise only more often to call or write a second half to calm your psyche.
The Internet will help you to stay in touch.
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Another Council : If you are going to a long trip, leave a partner several of your things so that they remind him of you. It is desirable that your smell remains on things. In general, the fragrance plays a big role in building a close contact, and not only sexual, more emotional.
It should be understood that in total in this world there is a start and end. The same can be said about the relationship at a distance. Yes, this connection has its own disadvantages, for example, constant sadness and longing, but you must, together with a partner, clearly delay the framework of their duration. Set the date, for example, year or even three. When you know that after some time the separation will end, you will be much easier to carry it.