"The sandy desert beach, the sea, on the beach there is another person, in contact with me, but its presence is implicit, more like a shadow. Behind my back along the cave beach in the form of spheres. I find yourself inside one of them, there are no obvious holes in it, while there is a dissipated light, dry and warm. Suddenly it becomes very stuffy, and the attack of claustrophobia begins, I urgently need to get out. I see the slot below, from the side of the sea, the wave sink through it the trickle and slowly breaks back. I am puzzled, as I better get out - head or legs, so as not to get stuck. I do not know how I got out, but I'm already on the beach, I look at the sea - cold - and I feel hostility in it, no one bathes, and I do not want. On the reverse side of the caves - the beach path from the boards, very crowded, everything in white, you can go to each sphere by opening the door, and change clothes. "
From the set of approaches to interpretation, this dream is very much drawn to disassemble from the point of view of the biological approach.
The fact is that from the first lines of this sleep, its content associatively resembled a birth situation.
For example: Next to me is exactly the person, but his presence is implicit, shadow ... I inside the cave, there are no clear holes in it, dispelled light ...
I feel the attack of claustrophobia, urgently looking for a way out ... I choose, climb ahead with your head or legs.
The birth of a child is his child, the first step towards autonomy
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If the newborn would know how to express their thoughts so much, for sure something like that would be told about their birth. How similar this dream is similar to the passages of the memory of the dreams about its intrauterine experience. Printing these lines, step on a slippery track, since there is quite a serious study that speakers that the brain of the newborn has not yet matured the areas responsible for this kind of long-term memory.
And there are practices based in your assistance to people on faith in the fact that this experience is just remembered by a child for life, he postpones the imprint on many life statues: overcome difficulties, feel their bodily boundaries and opportunities, tolerate, wait.
Further, the dream enters the unfriendly cold world, where people are all in white. Well, what is not the maternity hall?
Now the key question. Suppose a dream about birth, and as a fantasy version we take this approach. Why is the adult woman after many years dream of this experience?
Perhaps because our universal mind thinks categorically. The birth of a child is his child, the first step towards autonomy. It is likely that this experience pops up in consciousness, responding to current life tasks in the development of its independence, integrity, autonomy. I reflect on the topic that our dreamy is encountered now with the tasks similar to the tasks of the baby: to be autonomous, while needing, ask and attach to loved ones without adult feelings of shame and inconvenience for these natural human needs. We wish her good luck.
I wonder what you dream? Examples of your dreams send by mail: [email protected]. By the way, dreams are much easier to express if in a letter to the editor you will write preceding life circumstances, but most importantly - feelings and thoughts at the time of awakening from this dream.
Maria Dyachkova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazin